Yet another question but this time not about my b/f... My b/f's brother. He just got a g/f about 3 months ago and me and him used to be really close i used to call him my big brother and he called me his lil sis yeah close so since he got his g/f hes been ignoring me and being an i told him this and when i did he said i was jus jealous and being a . How rude!!! about a week and ahalf ago we went swimming together and she got mad and said he couldnt talk to me or hang out w/ me by ourselves his mom tried to explain to her that we were like brother and sister she didnt care but yet at the same time she was hanging out w/ his best friend which is a boy that is like in love w/ her even tho she goes out w/ my brother. I dont kno what to do!

shenda

You know what to do...give your good friend room to explore his new relationship, he is a good friend...a brother due to the embracement of extended-familyhood. The attention that you once rec'vd must now be directed unto a woman equipped to meet unmet needs. Let him explore this new relationship...remember...friends come and friends go, but family remains forever, even those extended-family members.

Face it, you have to share him, do not be selfish, it could be misunderstood by the new love interest. Think about it, if your guy suddenly spends more time with others than he does with you, how would you feel, especially, if that other person is an unrelated female. There is no security in that relationship. Earnestly, you are his brother's girlfriend, and this society has adopted a scary mentality, why go around the block to cheat when I can go next door.