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Old Feb 17, 2008, 06:29 PM
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Am I wrong, need an advise

Hello there....

Well my problem is that I been with this guy almost eight year with up and down, two years ago he cheat on me and got someone else pregrant. I never found out until the baby almost due, I left him for that. After the baby born, the other girl left him and he try to work out with me. I always ask him why can't he bring his son around me. His first sentence came out his mouth " Why shouldn't I bring him around you, you going to kill my son!!!" that when the baby is three month... I told him for what reason, I never saw how he look like or be around him Why you judge me like that for. Two years later, now he got half custody of his son so he bring him over our place every other weekend. This is my first time saw his son, he told that I can't be around him or near him because he think that I might cause harm to him. Every time his son came over I have to lleave all day, spend night at my friend house or rent motel just to stay away from them and sometime it last the whole weekend. Which i don't think it fair because I pay the same amount of rent as him so there no reason for me to leave my house when his son is here. i told him to bring his son to his mom house how if he don't trust me.This very upset me so much that i don't want to continous on with this relationship. i talk to him about this so many time that it bother me, all he say that I'm was wrong, What should I do ? i really need some good advise right now?


Thank for reading my drama life.....

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Old Feb 17, 2008, 07:21 PM   #2  
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RUN.

From what I can tell the following is true:

1. he is the wrong guy
2. you need to get more of an education
3. this guy does not love you
4. your life will never be happy with him
5. you need to find a better job and new friends that will help you start a new life

I hope this is not too harsh, i just sense no one has said this to you this directly.

And life is short and you cannot waste more time - no matter how tough this may seem.

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mwilliams15 agrees: Do all of these things. An ending to this relationship is LONG overdue
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Why do you even listen to him, I wouldn't. If your not good enough to be around his son, your not good enough to be around him. Get him out of your life, and get a real man, not booboo the clown.
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