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Old Jan 15, 2008, 12:27 PM
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breaking up with someone, heart breaking

basically ive only been with my boyfriend for 2 months, but its not working for many reasons. i have a horrible feeling he is seriously taking advantage of me in many many ways and all he is after is sex and money. he says he loves me and i mean the world to him, he needs me, he adores me, his life is perfect when im in it, he couldnt be without me, etc etc but it just not working for me.

im the type of person who worries a lot and im petrified to break his heart, if he means the above, but some things in the relationship i cant hack, and i feel trapped at unhappy at times.

does anyone know how i can break it to him, help me with words. what i worry about most if he is the type of person who doesnt take things easily. we work in the same shop but different hours, im worried people will hate me as he is liked in work, probably more than i am. its really difficult!

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Old Jan 15, 2008, 12:44 PM   #2  
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You wrote: "does anyone know how i can break it to him, help me with words."

"Tell him in person, when you are alone and sure not to be interrupted." See more here:
ym.com - "I Want To Break Up With Him!"
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Old Jan 15, 2008, 02:36 PM   #3  
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talk to him like you did here. Do not hide what you feel. First priority is your wellbeing not his. You will hurt him more if you dont be honest with him. Treat him like you want others treat you

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George_1950 agrees: Very good advice. No dancing around, "I'll always love you" blah, blah, blah
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Old Jan 15, 2008, 03:57 PM   #4  
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"it just not working for me. im the type of person who worries a lot and im petrified to break your heart, even if you mean what you said to me before, but some things in the relationship i cant hack, and i feel trapped at unhappy at times."
I just kinda rephrased what you posted, but I think it's a good idea to tell him what you told us. That way, you won't try the famous "I want to be friends" line, that'll just break the guy's heart. I know she broke my heart when she broke up with me using that line. Honesty is the best in your case, keep us posted though. Good luck!

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hannahlaws92 agrees: This is a really good answer, he has just rephrased what you have said, so they are your own words.
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