I dunno if you read my last posts but the jist was, i was in love with this older woman i met on the net, we met and was togther for a short amount of time, and when we split a week later she was telling me she was 'in love' with another guy.
its been about 10 weeks now since we split and at first we kept in contact, but we always ended up arguing. So i decided to do the NC thing, and it worked for about 3 weeks until i caved in a responded. now a week after breaking it, her new Boyfriend sends me a msg telling me im sad, and that i need to get a life. and i kinda switched and went nuts and and msg'ed her and we had a big argument, where i pretty much told her i that i hate her, and that i wished she never walked into my life. Which is what i really do feel, i despise this woman with a passion now.
But the thing is, i've deleted her of everything, and yet, I FEEL BAD =( i have no idea why and its really pissing me off because i've done nothing wrong, yet im feeling so upset at the moment. I feel like msg'in her and saying im sorry and that i didn't mean it. why can't i just walk away???? i want to so bad, and i feel this is it, this is my best oppertunity to do it. but i just don't want to end it on a big argument. What should i do?????
I dunno if you read my last posts but the jist was, i was in love with this older woman i met on the net, we met and was togther for a short amount of time, and when we split a week later she was telling me she was 'in love' with another guy.
its been about 10 weeks now since we split and at first we kept in contact, but we always ended up arguing. So i decided to do the NC thing, and it worked for about 3 weeks until i caved in a responded. now a week after breaking it, her new Boyfriend sends me a msg telling me im sad, and that i need to get a life. and i kinda switched and went nuts and and msg'ed her and we had a big argument, where i pretty much told her i that i hate her, and that i wished she never walked into my life. Which is what i really do feel, i despise this woman with a passion now.
But the thing is, i've deleted her of everything, and yet, I FEEL BAD =( i have no idea why and its really pissing me off because i've done nothing wrong, yet im feeling so upset at the moment. I feel like msg'in her and saying im sorry and that i didn't mean it. why can't i just walk away???? i want to so bad, and i feel this is it, this is my best oppertunity to do it. but i just don't want to end it on a big argument. What should i do?????
Walk away... there seems to be way too much drama in this relationship. Just move on.
Walk away. You owe her nothing, just as she owes you nothing. Sounds like you got in too deep, too fast. Happens to the best of us. Just shake it off and move on. Good luck.
My guess is that you are not a bad guy. You try to do right by people and you generally hate letting someone think that there are bad feelings or that you despise them. If I'm right thats why you feel that you owe her an apology.
But you don't. You don't owe her anything. She hasn't been your girlfriend for a long time You don't owe her an explanation for anything that you do in your life just like she does not owe you an explanation for anything that she does in her life.
Keep walking away. This woman sounds like a serious drama mama.
You were in LOVE....
Love can happen quick, slow, for the right reasons, for the wrong reasons.
Now, it's OVER. REALLY OVER. But the loving feelings take time to fade as we realize that it was not real.....or right!
So, with time and silence you will love again.
It's like breaking a bone. You don't expect to walk the next day! The doc says it will take 9 weeks....And we accept that! Well, in your case it will take at least 3-5 months...(maybe less) then you will be healed.
NC is your life now.
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