Is it true that if your girlfriend breaks up with you because she says she needs space, that if you acknowledge her decision an don’t chase her back you've more chance of reconciliation??

Where as if you chase her and act all needy an desperate (Ie. Ring, text, send flowers, letter) she will lose all attraction for you?

mckenzie134

how long you go out and whatwas the reason se wanted a break how longhas the break been goinf for

Dave1986

I was with her for 3 years, she's 21, im 25, i was her first love... we kept just falling out over petty little things which lead to a bigger fallout / break! at first i was cool about it, she started dating another guy which i knew was just totally rebound but i tried chasin her... prob cos of the guy but im not the jealous type so not sure if that was just reason or if it just started sinking in. we split up 3 months ago, i chased her for 2 of these an then thoguht "what the heck am i doin, there's millions of girl out there" been in NC for 5 weeks no, well she broke the NC last week phoning me drunk at like half 1 in morning an i answered by mistake as i dint know the number an was half asleep! she's split up with the rebound guy 2 weeks ago!

GlindaofOz

Just keep moving forward Dave. Honestly at 21 she has no idea what she really wants. You are doing good. just keep moving forward. You know you are going be fine. And hey we're all here for you. You have literally hundreds of people backing you.