Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 8 months now, he is 21 and I'm 22, he still won't let me touch him sexually or see him naked, he is fine with touching me and enjoys it as much as I do, but he won't have sex with me or let me near that area. We have talked about it, he puts it down to his anxiety but I don't think that's it. I have shown and let him explore every part of me and I want to do the same, I feel we are missing out on connecting in a sexual way. I love him so much and he loves me, but its hard to think of the future when I don't know if he will change. Has anyone else come across this problem I really need some advice on what to do, I try not to think about it, but more and more it is starting to upset me, I don't blame him but I need some advice on how to help and hopefully solve this problem. Also he did have sex with someone 6 years ago and didont like it, he hasent tried since.