Last night I got angry with my boyfriend because I found out that he not only watches porn, but that he masturbates to it as well. I was really shocked and overreacted. We had joked about him watching porn before, but he always said that when he was masturbating he was looking at pictures of me. Finding out that he was looking at other girls too made me feel like I need to change something about myself. I have even watched it with him before, so porn itself doesn't bother me, it's the thought of him looking at someone else. He has told me that he cares about me and loves me and that porn is completely different than the feeling you get when having sex with the person that you love, but I don't understnd that very well. I just need some input on how to react. He's coming home from a snowboarding trip in a couple of days and I don't want to feel strange about seeing him because of the pron. How should I approach him when he gets back?