Hi, I'm 28 years old and my boyfriend of six months wants me to actively participate in a three some with a large man who is a wrestler. I am a 5'4" petite, 112 pounds, my boyfriend is 6'0" and 195 pounds, while the third party man is 6'7" and 340 pounds. I am afraid the third man will really be too big? He also really wants me to go down on him (the wrestler)! My boyfriend then is particularily interested in doing a double penetration. What should I do?
Why does he want to share his girlfriend with some stupid wrestler? If I were you, I would punch him for wanting me to be part of this 3some
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If you go along with his request just because he wants you to do this, you are going to resent him if there is even one hint of anything that is not to your liking. I would just say no and be done with this. What are the guarantees that you are going to be safe? What happens if you do start this and want to stop once all this starts? I don't like this, not because of the kinky aspect but because you are leery of this and I imagine feel pressured by your boyfriend to do this for him. For him. Not for you, but for him. Selfish, isn't he?
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Well him that perhaps he should go down on him first and let him do him first if he wants a threesome so bad.
My only question I guess is why you are even asking, dump the jerk and find a boyfriend that will really love and respect you.
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If you are at all uncomfortable engaging in such an act, don't! If you get pressured into this, you are setting yourself up for the end of your relationship. Of course, the fact your boyfriend wants to do this might be the end as well, but there's no reason to EVER do anything sexually you aren't comfortable in doing. There are plenty of guys out there, I'm sure, who would be willing to have one-on-one sex with you - as is!
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Don't do anything you don't want to just to please someone else. Tell him to take his freaky deaky arse somewhere else.
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Do not do it. You will regret it. If your not comfortable in doing it don't. Just let him know your not willing. If there is a problem then he is not a true boyfriend and your better without. Do not let him do this to you.
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Wait.....He wants a 3 way with.....ANOTHER GUY?!?!?! He is not who you think he is.
binx44 (Aug 1, 2007 08:06 AM):
that doesnt mean hes GAY. just because he wanted a threesome with another guy in the mix most of the time never means hes gay. 2 men and a girl can get together but the men can never touch eachother or even if they do it doesnt make'm gay *goodness* Source:
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OK, havinga threesome with another girl is bad enoogh, but with another guy. This might be the red flag, no forget that, no red banner!
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I'm trying to think of a more polite way to say this, but I can't:
RUN and run fast (I would get a quick kick in "you know where" first). The fact that he wants to have a three-some with another guy does make me think though. It could be a red flag. Be careful.
If you do not want to do this, don't! You never really stated your opinion on this matter... If it was a complete 'NO' or if it's a maybe. If you ARE consdiering this, consider your safety. If all you know is that he's a wrestler then you should be cautious... Who knows where he's been or what he's got. Know what I mean?
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