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Old Sep 26, 2007, 08:15 AM
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Boyfriend looks at porn sites, cheating?

is it cheating if my boyfriend goes to porn sites and signed up for a sexual dating site and he signed up and goes to free web cam and cyber chats with other girls?

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Old Sep 26, 2007, 08:17 AM   #2  
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I'd say yes, looking at porn and having sexual chats with girls online are totally different things. How do you feel about it?

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Old Sep 26, 2007, 08:23 AM   #3  
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I hate that he looks at porn sites and stuff. He even denies that he looks at them and has signed up for some free web cam and for a sexual dating site. I looked in his computer history and it was all there and he still denies it. Like it makes me feel like my body isnt good enough for him and he has to go and look at other girls. It really makes me feel uncomfortable also.
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Looking at porn is one thing but signing up for sexual dating sites is TOTALLY DIFFERENT. I would think that is cheating. I would have a serious conversation with him or i would dump him in a heart beat. You deserve better then that sweetie...

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I agree with foxy, he is cheating
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To me it would be.
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Like I said befor just looking at porn is one thing but when you sign up for those sexual dating sites thats a WHOLE DIFFERENT SUBJECT.....That means he is trying to explore other options. And how is that fair to you? He wants to have his cake and eat it to? I dont think so. Sweetie put your running sneakers on and get the hell away from him! If he is looking on the internet for other options then what do you think he is doing behind your back when your not around? You so deserve a man that is going to A. Respect you, and B. Be with you and only you! Good luck to you, anf be good to you....
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i know how you feel my husband is doing the same thing. i just posted the same question. if you want to take a look that wound be cool.
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A) Looking at porn and shares it with u? --> NOT cheating
B) Looking at porn and denies the fact? --> CHEATING!!
C) Looking at porn + looking for other gals --> CHEATING!!
D) Looking at porn + looking for other gals + denying the fact --> NOT WORTH FORGIVING

He is bringing his addiction too far. Even looking at porn can be offensive to some girlfriends, what more watching other gals through web cams and dating them online?

I would say he is very selfish and callous. A boyfriend who really cares would tell his gf about his porn interests when she probes for answers. Did he not think of u when he signed up for all those chats?

Honey, u are not appreciated. In fact, maybe u are not loved at all.
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I will agree with lavenderly,

While I have my opinoins of porn, if you and him were sitting down together and watching it, if that is what floats your boat then sail it.

There is one "dating site" that being a member allows you to watch porn videos free, so he could be on that one, just for the free porn
** things you learn at confession

But most porn gives the man a very poor opinon of women and thier sexual satisfaction.

If this is not a joint acivity, then it is a cheating situation.
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