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My boyfriend keep flirty with other girls

Asked Jan 24, 2010, 01:23 PM — 3 Answers
Well I have a boyfriend right? He keep flirty with other girls and it's getting me worried and sad. And sometime in school he only talk to me onces. I saw him walking with another girl in the hallway in school. And I start to cry a lot because I don't want to lose him

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Jan 24, 2010, 01:29 PM
Speak to him about it explain how you feel and it will hopefully give you some answers or sort it out for you but he can have girls as in friends I'm sure you have boy pals but don't worry it will be fine just talk to him about it or talk to your friends about it and see what they think.. Hope that helps a bit
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Jan 24, 2010, 02:12 PM
In any relationship BOTH parties need to communicate , so tell him how it makes you feel and if he's not willing to change his ways maybe you need to give him an ultimatum.
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Jan 24, 2010, 02:37 PM


I think you need to talk with him. Don't make it an angry or emotional confrontation. Just sit down and have an open and honest discussion about the relationship and what each of you want out of it. Accept that you may be at different places in what you want right now.

He may not realize he flirts as much as he does. He may not realize that he ignores you as much as he does.

I will be honest and say that he may not be able to stop the flirting cold turkey even if he wants to do so. For some people (my husband for example) flirting is a part of their personality. They can learn to control it and keep it from getting out of hand or misunderstood, but they wouldn't be who they are without some flirting.

Be honest with him that you feel upset when he ignores you. You might be able to handle the flirting better if he gave you some of that same attention.

On your part, go up and talk to him. Flirt with him. There is no rule that says he has to make all the approaches or have all the fun.
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