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My boyfriend isn't talking to me.

Asked Mar 18, 2012, 11:25 PM — 14 Answers
So, we have been doing fine, until, today he hasn't talked to me, because his phone died. He refused to talk to me on the phone, physically. When, I told him to call me when he's ready, he replied with "k?". Then later, I sent him a text saying "So... You're not going to call me." and he replied saying "no?". That hurt and confused me. I asked him "what did I do?"... Another reply "nothing?". Then after that he didn't reply to any texts or didn't answer his phone. Nothing has happened, I haven't done anything, & I don't know why he is acting like this. If I back off, do you think he will call or text? Is this a sign he will end things? I need advice, please. He means so much to me.

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Mar 22, 2012, 11:17 PM


No I just think you are further down a hopeful path than he is. Whats obvious though from what you have written, is you are way more into this than he is, and its only been 5 months. WAY to soon for those forever, and ever plans.

I don't care what you have talked about. There is just to much more to learn about each other to have such high hopes in my opinion. Be realistic, and have fun finding out if his actions and words match, without getting so carried away by feelings you ignore FACTS!!
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Mar 22, 2012, 11:40 PM
Okay, so how can I discover these "facts" ?
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Mar 23, 2012, 12:24 AM


You enjoy yourself, and pay attention to whats going on around you, without getting carried away by feelings. Then you can relax, and see how things go and not just how you want them to go. In this way, you can tell if words and actions match, and if they are even worth believing in the first place.

If you take your time and pay attention you won't rush to give your heart to someone that doesn't deserve it, or doesn't know what to do with it. I know that love feeling at the beginning is so hard to resist or keep your wits about you, but the heart you save may be your own.

Whats the hurry???
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Mar 23, 2012, 07:55 PM
Never thought of that. Thank you. I need to start worrying about myself, before him.
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Mar 23, 2012, 08:06 PM


Always be happy with yourself, and take care of yourself, even when others do not.
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