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    Oct 7, 2008, 05:01 PM
    My boyfriend gets hard then goes soft
    Ok my boyfriend and I recently got together and he n I were about to have sex for da first time and he was hard den we brought out the condom and he then went soft right when we were about to have intercourse. He then told me it only happened to him once before with his ex the last time they had sex. He also told me she was really really bad so Idk but I think its cause she was just so bad his doesn't want to go in girls anymore. What's your opinion or advice of what's going on?
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    Oct 7, 2008, 05:16 PM

    How old are you both??
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    Oct 7, 2008, 05:45 PM

    I mean is she is 13 do you all think you can serious convince her to "wait for the right one"?. Kids these days do not listen to that. Although I am wondering that myself...
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    Oct 7, 2008, 06:11 PM

    Maybe he was nervous or something? Or maybe it was a sign.. wait for the right guy ;)
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    Oct 7, 2008, 06:13 PM

    LMAO... yeah I would have to also agree with the comment above!
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    Oct 7, 2008, 07:05 PM
    He was nervous its very normal for most guys to do that

    Either they to early or lose it

    The more you do it the more better it will become

    Just make sure that both of you feel safe and relaxed

    Its not about mr right or mr wrong
    Its about getting use to each other

    And as you guys are young it will take a bit of time :)

    Regards
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    Oct 7, 2008, 07:16 PM

    It looks like the little chica figured it out. BRAVA!
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