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    HaRLoS Posts: 86, Reputation: 8
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    Jun 2, 2007, 05:58 PM
    Boyfriend and I fight
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months. Today we were at my dads house and drank a few beer, I hand't ate yet and was feeling sick, he said he would cook for me when we got back to my house when he was done his beer. Well we ended up getting into a HUGe fight cause I was not talking cause I did not feel good and he thought I was mad, so he got mad cause I was mad and we almost broke up, my question is... if he has such a short temper, is he worth all the emotional pain and hurt he puts me through? I love him to death, just not sure if its worth it.
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    Jun 2, 2007, 05:59 PM
    No, if he acts this way around little situations imagine how he will react during the big, serious situations. You might end up hurt. And that isn't worth it.
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    Jun 2, 2007, 06:00 PM
    If you love him to death you wouldn't question if he's worth it, but alchy brings out a diff side in people...
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    Jun 3, 2007, 11:36 AM
    After one fight I wouldn't throw in the towel. I think you two need to talk about what happened and how you two can avoid these situations in the future. If you really love him than you can resolve it. However, it these types of things continue you might not want to get to involved or at least not so fast. Me and my boyfriend fight a lot and I care about him so just listen to what your heart is telling you
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    Jun 3, 2007, 03:44 PM
    If you can't resolve things in a more mature manner, you better rethink this relationship. One of you may not be ready for a relationship at this level, or can't hold their liquior, which is a whole nuther problem. Quick to anger and impulsive are hard traits to deal with.
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    Jun 4, 2007, 07:32 AM
    Here's an idea... limit the drinking around each other. Alcohol always seems to escalate people's temper. I've seen so many couples get into fights---fights that would not have been so big, over something so small---because of alcohol. My past ones included.
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