My boyfriend dumped me and I want him back how do I get him back?

Dorian123 · #1 Dec 17, 2007, 09:16 AM

My boyfriend dumped me because I was always arurging and he dumped me and I want him back but the only thing is is that he has a new girlfriend and i've told him i've changed but he does'tn kown how to break up with her. How do I get back together with him?

Dorian123 · Dec 17, 2007, 09:21 AM

its hard but just try and move on

kyla555 · Mar 18, 2008, 05:13 PM

im in a similar situation, but my ex doesnt want me back atall, i know how hard it is... i was wiv mine 4 almost 2 yrs... the only thing i can suggest is ask to meet up wiv him for a drink n just say there wnt be any strings attached, wud just like a chat... but dnt let him play u, cos being wanted 4 1 thing n 1 thing only is the worst feelin, especially wen u love that person, but u say he doesnt no how 2 split up wiv his gf, does that mean he duz want u? have u asked him that? cos ova wise he is just sayin that so he dnt hurt u... let me tell u sumink... men love havin loadsa ppl wantin them... it boosts their ego, just try n have a lil chat wiv him n see if he will go out wiv a drink wiv u like i sed... but make sure he dnt bring any 1 else... lads r hopeless 2 talk 2 around their mates lol... n only u will know if he is bein genuine or not... n if it doesnt work out just do what i do... and thats just knowin that even tho he dnt love me now, i know he loved me more than any thin, and those memories will never be forgotten, thats one thing no 1 can take away from u, not even him, but thats wot keeps me goin... hope i have helped

xxx

Suelle383 · Mar 18, 2008, 06:22 PM

I'd be very cautious. He says "he doesn't know how to break up with her"? He knew how to dump you so how couldn't he know how to dump her. It sounds like he might be playing you and just trying to keep you hanging out on a limb. Leave him alone and try to move on. I promise, you'll feel better, just give it some time and patience.

Marriedguy · Mar 18, 2008, 06:26 PM

He has a new girlfriend which means he showing you that he has moved on. I wouldnt advise you to try to get back with him. Why would you stick your hand back in the fire.

Homegirl 50 · Mar 18, 2008, 09:32 PM

He broke up with you with no problem. If he wanted to leave this other girl he would. Don't be a doormat. Why would you want to get back with someone who dumped you and has moved on?
He is not the only guy in the world and your world won't end without him.
Move on.



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