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isayfrancisco · Jul 20, 2010, 03:02 AM

Id been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs.. and I can say that he really shows cares and affection to me and even to my family.. the break up started when he knew that I add his uncle to my Facebook.. he didn't even give a chance to explain that his mom asked me to do that since I want to see her on pictures because we were talking for over the phone for 3 yrs too, but I didn't seen her even in pictures.. he has issues with his ex-wife, she cheated him but I don't think that's the reason.. he told me that I am stalker on that FB issue.. that were not compatible and that were two different people.. after a break up I called him many times and beg him to give me a chance, but he told me to just wait until he get back here so we can talked.. but what bothers me is that why his telling me to wait for him, wherein his already breaking up with me on the phone. And every time I tried to call him, his still answering my call but always giving me excuses so we can't talk that much.. I know he loves because that's what he makes me feel for 3 yrs.. I don't know what to do to win his heart again.

talaniman · Jul 20, 2010, 05:28 AM

He is being disrespectful, and taking you for granted. If you have done nothing wrong, why the mistreatment, without an explanation?

If you do what he says then you are allowing bad behavior as this is in no way a show of love, or caring so what the freak are you begging for? He should be the one begging for YOUR forgiveness.

When you allow someone to treat you badly, you will definitely get more of it.

Stop calling, begging, and explaining, since its you who have done nothing to explain and should not wait for him. That only condones his bad behavior, and sends a message that you can be treated any way he feels like it.

After 3 years have you lost your dignity and self respect just to make him happy? That's not love. To bad you don't love yourself as much as you say you love him.