 | | | My boyfriend broke up with me after 6 months. Is it done forever?
Asked Oct 3, 2009, 06:16 PM
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103 Answers To all who post here. Natalie 25 and Natalie 26 are the same person so know the threads have been merged, and edited.
HELP! I love him. We have been dating for 6 months and life has been amazing. When we met he told me how later on he would start an internship and be very busy. That means he would be working full time, school full time and a internship. He thought back then he could deal with it. But I guess now he is just getting so stressed out. This last month we have been hanging once a week on Fridays. And that has been fine with me but I guess not with him. He wants to see me more and he thinks once a week or less is unfair. I guess I do understand but I don't. If he cared wouldn't he do anything to make it work? But I know he cares so much for his career and that goes first. He told me he was torn inside and didn't want to but juts doesn't have the time. I know he cares for me a lot. And really there isn't much time. But I'm just so heartbroken. I decided we can still be friends. And he said who knows what the future holds. Is there a chance he'll miss me later on and want me back? I decided to be friends but I'm not going to contact him he can do that right? Is there any chance he;ll start missing me and want me back and think it will work? Please help! Thread Summary |
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Mar 2, 2010, 05:17 AM
| | | Ex's are ex's for a reason, it doesn't seem like either one of you are ready for the relationship | | |  | New Member | |
Mar 2, 2010, 05:29 AM
| | | I'm sorry, but he doesn't want to be with you in a mature and loving sort of way. You were without him for 5 months, you can do more. You're returning and hoping for nothing. If you really wanted him as a friend or boyfriend neither of it would be so hard and painful. Move on. You'll feel better with time and without drama. | | |  | Senior Member | |
Mar 2, 2010, 07:46 AM
| | | It is possible to reconnect but it will not be good. There will always be resentment. On top of this he broke up with you cause he was too busy and now he is just as busy. All he could make for you was an hour to talk? Should have been dinner or something that lasted much longer. You will not be able to stay friends given your past and you new boyfriend will not like this, on top of the fact that you don't know what the heck you want yourself. Why be with anyone who doesn't have time for you? You are a princess and that is in my opinion how you should be treated. A man is here to make a woman happy and it doesn't sound like either of these two have the time to make you happy. (of course the opposite is true about women as well). I suggest not going after this guy. Honestly I have to wonder why some people ask such questions here, they already know the answer clear as day but still they ask. Really how did you want us to answer? Here's one for yeah, why not have them both and just have fun and break both their hearts? Or go back to the ex, get dumped, and go back to the other ex to get dumped. I mean if that's what you wanted to hear then I guess you asking wasn't as irrational as it seems but come on. | | |  | Senior Family & People Expert | |
Mar 2, 2010, 08:45 AM
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