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    FaithVMV111 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 14, 2010, 09:16 AM
    Is my boyfriend annoyed with me?
    We've only been together for two months and Christmas is just around the corner. He had invited me to meet his family and I did. They were very nice and I liked them a lot and visa versa.

    However, before we went to his family party we went white elephant shopping, then we got bored so I suggested sex in the middle of the day. Of course he was OK with that, but I was still going after he was done and he said he needed another condom but he didn't have another one with him. So he just pleasured me till I was done. I felt like he was annoyed with me because he couldn't find another condom and that he pleasured me and I didn't pleasure him.

    And not only that, he was text messaging is best friend (a girl) a little after we had sex and the whole time we were at his family party. I took his phone away just to look through his photos and he saw me do that and was OK with it, then his friend texted him again so I gave his phone back for him to text her back. Then after he finished his text I looked at him to see if I could ask for his phone again and he said "no" without hesitating.

    Is he annoyed with me? Or is he just talking to his best friend for gift ideas for me? Or is he annoyed that he pleasured me and I didn't pleasure him? Or is he annoyed that he pleasured me and I didn't pleasure him and I was snooping through his phone?? What do you think?
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    Dec 14, 2010, 09:23 AM

    I don't know if he's annoyed (ask him), but I sure am after reading your post. It seems like you are much too involved in his personal business after being together such a short time. My advice is stop snooping.
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    Dec 14, 2010, 10:35 AM
    I think you are expecting way too much interpretation from total strangers.
    I too find this annoying, because there's no real pressing problem here, just a sort of daily diary of shopping, dinner, texting and sex details sort of casually tossed in.
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    Dec 14, 2010, 10:43 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by FaithVMV111 View Post
    Is he annoyed with me? or is he just talking to his best friend for gift ideas for me? or is he annoyed that he pleasured me and I didn't pleasure him? or is he annoyed that he pleasured me and I didn't pleasure him and I was snooping through his phone??? What do you think?
    We can't be sure if he is annoyed with you or not. I know that reading your story, "I" was getting annoyed, because if you two are having sex and playing house, then you two should be able to communicate with one another.

    Your best bet is to just come out and ask him if he is annoyed with you.
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