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Is my boyfriend angry with me or he is dumping me?

Asked Mar 1, 2012, 08:55 AM — 21 Answers
My boyfriend and I last talked on 15th Feb. I was angry with him. He called me back, but I didn't pick up. Next day also he called me, but I didn't pick up. Now it has been 15 days. He didn't call me at all nor did I call him. What does that mean? Is he angry with me or does he want to break up? Am feeling really restless and have cried a lot.

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Mar 6, 2012, 08:34 AM
Well, you hung up on him and then wouldn't answer him...after all this time, he's probably decided that he's better off without you. You could keep trying I suppose but it sounds like he's done.

Just think about this next time you want to play games like that with someone. It doesn't always work out for you.
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Mar 6, 2012, 08:35 AM
Well 3 years is a long time. He probably is upset u Hung up in the first place. A guy seems to need to be in control. U can't be the one ending the argument. He has to. Sounds like too, Is that he's giving you a taste of your own medicine. I always get this crap from my significant other. Forewarning it seems to get worse the longer you are together. It doesn't soundvlike its a breakup sit. By what u said. I guess depending on what the argumrnyvwas about. He's probably gathering his thouhts
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Mar 6, 2012, 10:39 AM
It may be that he lost his phone, or maybe lost his charger. Don't jump into any conclusions.

It also may be possible that he is treating you the same way you treated him, by ignoring him. It doesn't feel good does it? Next time, don't do things to people that you wouldn't want done to you.

Until he decides to say something, which puts him in control of the situation now, you are just going to have to wait. Unless, you don't think he is worth waiting for, then you can just break up with him and move on with your life.
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Mar 6, 2012, 11:10 AM


I'm with odinn. By March 3rd, he figured you were out of his life and had moved on. I wouldn't put any fault about this at his door.
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Mar 6, 2012, 02:19 PM
It may be that he lost his phone, or maybe lost his charger. Don't jump into any conclusions.

It also may be possible that he is treating you the same way you treated him, by ignoring him. It doesn't feel good does it? Next time, don't do things to people that you wouldn't want done to you.

Until he decides to say something, which puts him in control of the situation now, you are just going to have to wait. Unless, you don't think he is worth waiting for, then you can just break up with him and move on with your life.
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Mar 6, 2012, 05:42 PM


Threads have been yet again merged together and there is no need to start another one.
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Mar 7, 2012, 06:42 PM
Boyfriend is not pickin my call!
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I am so confused n depressed am not understanding what to do. Should I text him and end the relationship by myself.I am really going through a hard phase of life right now.I want to know why is he doing like this to me. He never did like this before, and even me I've never called a guy like this before. It makes me feel so desperate. What should I do now? Help me, I feel like committing suicide. Please guys help me, or else I might do something to myself!
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Mar 7, 2012, 09:23 PM


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I am so confused n depressed am not understanding what to do. Should I text him and end the relationship by myself.I am really going through a hard phase of life right now.I want to know why is he doing like this to me. He never did like this before, and even me I've never called a guy like this before. It makes me feel so desperate. What should I do now? Help me, I feel like committing suicide. Please guys help me, or else I might do something to myself!
It would be foolish, selfish and just plain dumb to harm yourself over a guy who is ignoring you. Just send him a one word text "good bye", and get yourself under control and heal, and move on!

Thats what you should do, and deal with those other hard times in your life.
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Apr 4, 2012, 05:08 AM
Relationship is ruined
Me & my boyfren,we wer seeing each other for 3 yrs.everything was going fine,but on 15 feb we quarelled on sumthin & since that day he didn't call me for almost 1 month nor received my call.on march 13th he call me n said he was angry wid me dats y he did like that.since that day he call me oftenly bt I don't feel like before n don't use to talk nicely wid him but again after sumdays again he hardly use to call me n I don't feel gud so I started calling him.please help me what should I do am really confused. When he doesn't calls me I feel so lost n rejected but when he does I feel like he treated me very bad by not callin me 1 month.I really need help
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Apr 7, 2012, 08:37 AM
Do you still love him? If you're also doubting your love for him, then try meeting other people and going out to dates with other people. Don't waste your precious time sitting by the phone hoping and wishing for him to call you.
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