My boyfriend is angry with me?

odinn7 · Mar 1, 2012, 05:55 AM

He sounds like he enjoys controlling you and doesn't want to trust you. Do you really want someone like that in your life? I mean really...1 hour and he's flipping out on you? Forget about him, let him flip out on someone else. His behavior isn't going to get any better. Next thing he'll be telling you who you can have as friends and where you can go and when. Dump him and soon enough you will find someone else who treats you better.

Lavender45 · Mar 1, 2012, 09:53 PM

I think he sounds like an a$$. I get that you love him, but he seems disrespectful, and very controlling, if he got mad over that then he'll probably threaten your relationship on many other things in the future that are equally as silly and it likely wont last long. Thats how I feel, that is... unless he has a reason to wonder where you are...

nouree · Mar 3, 2012, 06:09 AM

oddin i have been in a relation with this guy for 3 yrs now and you know what he already tells me who i can b friends with and when can i go out i mean i m not allowed to go out without him ,but on the other side he loves me a lot i mean comes early in the morning to meet me and stays with me the whole day if i want anything he will do anything to get it i mean hes very caring but yes hes very controlling and i tried a lot to get over this relation i mean a lot but i m not able to go away from him i want him to realize that i m important to him and i want that he should treat me nicely and trust me can you help me in this

odinn7 · Mar 3, 2012, 07:03 AM

Sadly there isn't much that can be done. You can talk to him about it all and see if he understands and starts treating you better but....in my experience, someone who controls so much about you already is going to just get worse in the future. 3 years and he already says who you can hang out with and when. The bad part here is that you allow him to do this by putting up with it.

Has he started hitting you yet? That sometimes comes along with someone that is a controller.

JoeCanada76 · Mar 3, 2012, 11:06 AM

Why are you feeling bad because of an obsessed, emotional, abuser? You did nothing wrong yet you are made to feel guilty about something that is out of you're control.

You need to say F--- you back and never contact me again if you can not treat me better. This person is a controlling, nasty, hateful creature that you are better off not having around you..

If you stick around or try to get this person back you are just asking for abuse to escalate to the point of physical abuse, if like other posters mentioned could have already started? Maybe?

nouree · Apr 23, 2012, 09:17 PM

guys i have been in a relation frm past 3 years now.my bf used to call me everyday and at night we used to talk.but nowadays he hardly calls i know there is no other girl and hes not busy with his work or anythin i wait the whole night but he doesnt call .I want him to call me like bfr and give me more importance please help what to do?

none12345 · Apr 23, 2012, 09:20 PM

You are too needy. Other people have things to do other than call you every night at a certain time and what if he is tired of that and wants you to call him for a change. Try to understand that the world does not surround you.

Wondergirl · Apr 23, 2012, 09:20 PM

Guys don't like to talk on the phone like girls do. If you want endless phone convos, call a girlfriend. Guys DO stuff, take ACTION, not talk and talk and talk. He is perfectly normal and it has nothing to do with how he feels about you.

talaniman · Apr 23, 2012, 10:16 PM

After putting both you post together, he is a control freak, and you are insecure, and needy.

What you both need to do is talk and work out an agreement that works for you both, about calling and such. If the only way you communicate is thru threats and punishment, and ignoring each other, you don't have a relationship, you have hostile dependency.

Work together, or work apart!

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