My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We have had our problems (he is passive aggressive, jealous, a bad parent to his 6 year old duaghter- allowing lying, manipulation, giving her more power than adults- while my 7 year old son is there to witness) and he's has claimed that he will change. Wanting to believe a change, I sold my house and bought one with him (putting all my money from the sale of my house into renovating the new house) and now it's gotten worse. I feel like the worst part is that he is more concerned with playing out his case to others (my friends) so they can judge then he is with making things better and talking to me. Not only does it make me resent him, but it also makes people uncomfortable. I don't know what to do. I can't afford this house on my own, but I have put all my money into this house and feel like I can't walk away...