Boy friend hit me in the face 3 times?

TrueFaith · Sep 10, 2011, 09:57 AM

Leave him! Simple as that the second he hit you, you should have been out the door taken pics of your face and pressed chargers

You should leave now right now, if you stay with him then anything that happens from here on in is your fault.
Don't be one of them women that get smacked and go ohh but I love him.

Be strong go to your parents lean on the important people in life

All the best

Kahani Punjab · Sep 10, 2011, 10:11 AM

Love is about loving each other, accepting others, as and how your partner is, and is full of sacrifice, but if someone is hitting you, it means he is either fed up or not made for you.

Leave him!

Fr_Chuck · Sep 10, 2011, 11:39 AM

So what happened after you called the police and filed charges against him for hitting you? You did do that didn't you ? And if you did not, please tell us why ?

Why have you not walked out the door and not come back ?

BK201 · Sep 10, 2011, 11:45 AM

Pull yourself and your emotions together, and leave him for good. For yourself, and for people who care for you, its time for you to take a firm step towards your own good. Leave him, leave him and leave him.
If I had done that to my girlfriend, she would have slapped me harder.

talaniman · Sep 10, 2011, 04:03 PM

Leave! Now!

landomando · Sep 10, 2011, 08:11 PM

If he hit you..

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JoeCanada76 · Sep 10, 2011, 09:40 PM

It sounds like more of a roommate then a boyfriend. Living with him for 1 year sounds like 1 year too much. There is no relationship here so why are you sticking around? Hitting you is physical abuse on top of not having any kind of relationship with this person. You know what you need to do, now the question is will you Leave?

Stringer · Sep 10, 2011, 10:04 PM

I also suggest you leave as soon as possible, like yesterday.

Once physical abuse occurs it opens up a whole new 'bag of worms' so to speak. And also usually leads to additional abuse that may harm you even more.

I personally have no respect for anyone that lays a hand on another in a relationship. To me it shows cowardice and in this case brutality.

Leave him now is my suggestion and find yourself and another that cares for you in a loving relationship.

Good luck to you and be safe, no one should feel threatened.

Stringer

Kahani Punjab · Sep 11, 2011, 12:28 AM

I will like to add 2 more points -
#1 - If it is bad to hit/insult someone, it is bad to get hit/insulted from someone
#2 - If you care someone, even after he/she beats you, it gives motivation to 'such' people, and this way violence spread, and the number of victims (like you) increase.

So, nip the evil in the bud. Leave such persons, and if possible, get them booked somehow. Make them repent for what they have done, to you, or anyone, in any 'such' case.

Chances of your maintaining relationship with that person MUST be ZERO, whatever good/bad happens! Remember it, it will be in favour of you as well as mankind/womankind!

Boy friend hit me in the face 3 times?

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