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Mar 24, 2008, 08:41 AM
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| | | My birthday party
My best friend is throwing a birthday party and ask me to invite all my friends next week.
Most of my friends ( pure friendship) are guys, I wonder if it is a good idea to have them all meet at my party...
I want everyone have a good time. I do notice one of them is jealous about it, he might like me more than a friend, I don't know for sure. I am not full of myself or anything but I am afraid that more than one of them likes me.
Any advice please? Should I invite them all?
Thank you a lot.
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Mar 24, 2008, 08:43 AM
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| I would just invite your friends, if they like you as more than a friend, that's their "issue," not yours. You should feel free to invite whoever you want. |
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Mar 24, 2008, 08:56 AM
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| There gonna be about 12-15 guys...what if they all like me more than friends...will it be under control? again I am not full of myself, but even my girlfriends can sense their interest on me.
I have asked a few of them to bring a guest or date...they seem so hesitated and sad about it... | |
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Mar 24, 2008, 09:01 AM
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| So as long as you treat them like you would your girlfriends (don't flirt, cuddle, lead them on) and you should be good. | |
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Mar 24, 2008, 09:04 AM
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| NO, I don't flirt with them at all! They are respectful guys too. They like me is b/c of my innocence. A few of them have even told me that... | |
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Mar 24, 2008, 09:10 AM
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| Invite your FRIENDS, and have a good time.  If your worried about them fighting for your attention, invite some females.  Come on what type of party would it be, with just your suitors and exes???  | |
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Mar 24, 2008, 09:15 AM
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| No, I don't have an ex, I never had a bf before.
The fact is I have more male friends due to I am a computer science major student. I have about 5 girlfriends so the ratio is going to be 1:3(female:male).
The girls are all dating someone or have a date to bring with them... | |
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Mar 24, 2008, 09:22 AM
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| also, it's 21 bday, I am afraid after the guys drink a bottle or two...the truth will come out from their mouth. Things they usually don't say to me...they will probably say on that night... | |
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Mar 24, 2008, 09:38 AM
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| I would just invite your friends and not worry about it so much. Tell your girlfriends to bring their guys, but also bring another female friend. If these guys can't handle their liquer and decide to profess their undying love for you....that is their problem. Not yours!
Have fun!! | |
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Mar 24, 2008, 10:11 AM
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| Quote: | Originally Posted by CFZD also, it's 21 bday, I am afraid after the guys drink a bottle or two...the truth will come out from their mouth. Things they usually don't say to me...they will probably say on that night... |
Thats the chances you take, or don't invite them. If they say something while drunk, you can get 'em back in class. These guys aren't your b/f, so they are on there own. Don't invite someone who is an idiot. | |
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