i dont no what to do with myself im a total mess ive not long got over depreshon and then i met this guy we both fell for each othere really quick we clicked it was amazing i when he tld me i felt houting it from the roof tops and i felt the same way hes the niceist guy i have ever met then out of no where his ex turns up at his work i dont no this i new there was somthing up that day i didnt hear from him till 11 at night and that was a message saying that he cant bear to hear me cry or see me and that his ex was pregnat and that he cant ask me to stand bye him and that i deserve better and evan tho he needs me in his life he cant do this to me now cuz he went strait offf line he didnt give me the chance to talk to him and that upset me so much i had a panic attact on the phone and my friend had to calm me down befor i had a asma attac i sent him a messsag but he int been online so i text him saying would wouldent have to ask i would stand by him throu anthing and that ilove him and i no he loves me and the we need to talk when you are ready please text me
but its the 4th day now and im a total messss if he did get back in contact ye thats great but if he dont i dont no how im gonna go about getting over him i love him so much and i feal like there is a big gap missing in me

can anyone help
ps im dislexic so sorry about the spellling mistakes

Clough

I do feel sorry for you and don't want you to hurt. But, texting and/or emailing someone really isn't the way to go in situations like this. Please TALK to him. Call him on the phone or show up where he works or is or whatever and do so with dignity and respect for yourself and him. But, it sounds like you need to wait a few days in order to even talk to him personally.

When you do get to speak with him, in person or on the phone, listen to what he has to say and then THINK about how you are going to respond. Take your time in doing so. There isn't any rush. Walk away if you need to and tell him that you will have to think about what he has just said, if you need to. This isn't a life and death situation.

He obviously is more than a little upset because of the news that his ex is pregnant. He needs to deal with that himself without the burden of having to deal with your wants also right now because of the way that he has reacted to communication with you. Please give him time. Give him some time and space, please.

I am hopeful that others will also come along to offer there advice as well as support.

LEILA007

you try to be the pregnant one for a moment in this situation and see how u may feel. maybe he wants to try things with her for the baby unfair but this is life. let it be for now , remember chances r that she will keep the baby and do u want to be involved with that situation? do u think that once she founds out he has a gf she will back off? think again, u r setting urself up for the drama of a lifetime. also if she just turned up pregnant means they had sex not too long ago. let him deal with this . u really dont want to be in the middle of this ..

WOMAN CAN BE VERY CRUEL SHE WONT LET U GUYS BE IN PEACE, SO BE READY THE RIDE STARTS HERE.