Girl i love has boyfriend

Gurshalyulo · #1 Apr 12, 2007, 09:48 PM

I met this girl last year and spent every day with her (i was a 8th grader, so i practically saw her everyday). I began to grow more and more attracted to her, but when I went to make a move, she pulled the were too good of friends b.s... so in anger and such i dated another girl immediatly after she told me that.. well eventually i apologized for dating the girl like i did and ignoring her like a kindergardener. She told me that she thought about going out with me, but was "scared". Well this year she goes to a new school, but I hung out with her this past nov. She came over for about 8 hours and eventually went home after an amazing day. 3 days later she agreed to go out with a guy, and not even tell me (were "friends" as she said, so i would assume she would tell me).. Well i tried hanging out with her multiple times while she is still going out with her boyfriend so i could at least have a chance to talk to her and such.. (he goes to girls houses too, so dont find it as im a ) but every time she screws me over at the last minute, only to go to her boyfriends house.. If the way i feel for this girl is love, then ive deeply fallen into it.. WHAT TO DO?

manimuth · Apr 13, 2007, 07:10 AM

If she wanted to be with you, she would've been, by now. She's had more than enough opportunities to be with you but she has chosen to be with another boy. So, unfortunately, I don't think she feels about you the way you feel about her.

So, as hard as it is to realize that, now you have to pull away and move on. There is no point hanging around her while she dates other boys hoping that she will go out with you. That is a waste of your time, emotion, and life. You can be spending that time and energy meeting other wonderful girls so let it go and move on.

Leave her alone for a bit so that you can heal your feelings and move on with your life.

Gurshalyulo · Apr 16, 2007, 05:51 PM

it is very hard to do but i will try

LuvMyMaltipoo · Apr 17, 2007, 07:33 PM

You probably scared her, you two are a little young to be so serious. She's probably never had a serious boyfriend and when you tell her you love her she probably gets scared because she doesn't even know what love is.



At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you will be able to: Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+ topics. Accept money for answers that you provide. Communicate privately with other members (PM). See fewer ads. Sign Up!