I don't know where to start. I'm 16 and i met probably the most influential person in my life named Jamie. I met her at work and we started hanging out and all that. Things were going real well until last saturday. I just want to get this out there before someone thinks of this in a different way. Jamie is a lesbian and i have absoutly no attraction to her at all. Last saturday some things happened while we were sleeping that i don't remember and now she wont even talk to me. I honestly don't know exactly what happened that night but i have been told and i would rather not share it. She has changed my life in so many good ways that losing her as a friend will just ruin me. She helped me stay away from drugs and she also helped me become a more rounded person while accepting me for what I am and not making fun of me for being different. I just dont know what I can do to make things normal again or even somewhat normal.

NorthernHeat

Tell her many of the things you just told us. This should open the door to better communication. You can find out what happened (don't push the question for now) and let her know your sexual orientation isn't like hers. Maybe she felt lead on be your friendship. Hope you can work this out, a friend is a special thing, but takes allot of effort on both sides.

B Merc

I have already heard what happened whether its true or not is something i am unsure of, but i don't see any reason why she would lie to me. I've appologized to her as well as told her that what ever happened was not done intentionally. She clearly sees no interest in me as i am not a female, but i don't exactly know how she thinks i feel about her.

ashley19

repeat those words to her, im sure you guys can work it out ,if she refuses to talk to you write a letter or email. dont let a good friend go, xo

alycutie09

i think u sould date her
if she is attrated to you
i think u should be attated to her

Skell

It is hard to offer much advice based on what you have told us.
But i think the best thing you can do is try and talk to her one more time and explain your side of the story.
If she still wont accept your apology and be friendly towards you then either what you have done is unforgivable or she isnt as good a friend as you thought!