I have been with my fiancee for 7 years and now I have recently found out that he had cheated on me with 3 different girls. We have 3 beautifull daughters and I currently don't work. When I found out the details two of the chicks were when I was living with my folks out of state for a while and then the other girl was during the time I was pregnant with our third daughter and working at the time and it happened in the bed we share. I love him with all my heart but now I am so confused about what to do. I'm not in the situation to leave him because all of my family is now out of state plus I dont have a job. Can anyone tell on how to cope or what to do about the situation. I'm to the point to where I just don't look at him the same anymore and just want to die. Please help me!

Wildcat21

Ughhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! I am so sorry. I wish knew what a complete jerk he was before the kids. I'd like to take a baseball bat to his head.

Of course you can't see him in the same way.

The trust is shattered and should never come back. You need to leave this guy - you can never be happy again - contact your family - file for child support. It's time to leave this a-hole. Move back with your family.

One question, was he a 'boy bad' when you first met him? Trouble? I have a strong feeling yes. That you knew what you were getting into.

Why do woman go after the 'bad boys' - they will always create heart ache, and destroy woman.

Once is not OK, let alone 3.

Wildcat21

Pleae - this guy will only cause more trouble and sorrow.

There are a lot of great guys out there that would love your kid.

How can you love a guy who betrayed you trust so badly?