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Old Sep 25, 2006, 03:46 PM
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Beeing more sexualy attractive

Hey again all!

This place is addictive

Anyway I was wondering...
I am a pretty attractive guy with lots off friends and I am very social.
Although I have a problem...

I am the guy that ALL girls love to talk to and hang out with.
That is of cource really great.....BUT
Fact is all almost every girl I meet just want to be friends....
Thats all they want to do...talk talk talk
And thats great but it is getting frustrating...

Just getting shot down...time after time
I mean right now I just wanna play the field for a while...I mean im in college...


So I was wondering how do I get all these girls to want more....
Should I talk diffrently or be more funny or what!?
I know this is very diffrent for all girls but there have to some general guidelines for a guy that wants more then just a deep conversations...

For example...what are good subjects when u talk to a girl...?


Thanx



Wonder

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Old Sep 29, 2006, 03:07 AM   #21  
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hahaha
Well then....just the hug would be fine then i guess

Didnt see that coming :P
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Old Sep 29, 2006, 10:26 AM   #22  
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more stuff here...
http://www.worldtalkradio.com/archives.asp?sid=202
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Yeah - hug would be fine. Flowers - usually almost always - a little too much.

But, it's great your willin gto change and figure out what has not gone right.

But with that gal - disappear for a while.
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Old Sep 29, 2006, 11:32 AM   #24  
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[SIZE="4"]I'll take the flowers! [/SIZE] My opinion, mine only, is.......... If you haven't seen or talked with her for a week or two, ther is nothing wrong with maybe giving her a single rose if you go out on a date again. Shows a little romance, women (speaking for myself) like a romance. Makes them get that whole wamth all over feeling?

Awwww romance..guess maybe mine is in the ****ter right now that's why a rose sounds good here!!!..........

What ya think Wildcat???? A single rose or too needy?
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Sorry - buying a girl a drink never works - have them buy you a drink. Be different.

Ya, I have had guys buy me a drink before---they are looking at you from across the bar with these googly eyes like "hey baby....you and me later" I usually take the drink.....unless the bartender says someone wants to buy a drink for me and then I will say no thanks.
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I am not saying don't send flowers - just don't over do it. Few and far between.

And I know for a fact showing up with a single rose - some girls go eeeeeeeeeeeeeeew. Yuck!

I guess you also gotta know the girl - which ALWAYS gets back to taking things slow - getting to know them.

I rest my case on buying a girl a drink - bad idea. Do something different.
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I am not saying don't send flowers - just don't over do it. Few and far between.

And I know for a fact showing up with a single rose - some girls go eeeeeeeeeeeeeeew. Yuck!

Gotcha!! I know what you mean. If I were to get flowers all the time, I would just think "oh more flowers." The excitement would not be there.

And it depends on the situation with the single rose and the guy. Some goober giving me a single rose would be Yuck! But if it were a heart felt gesture- would be taken differently.
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key thanx so much wildcat
If you were her id give u a BIG hug and some roses
You truly are amazing


Wonder

A hug and flowers would only drive Wildcat away. "Don't be needy and clingy. Be mysterious. let thme come to you. To much to soon. LESS IS MORE!!!"


HAHAHA......Sorry Cat, I couldn't resist. But at least you know I've been paying attention!!!
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That's right - don't forget it!!!!

People want what they can't have!!!
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