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Old Sep 25, 2006, 03:46 PM
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Beeing more sexualy attractive
Hey again all!

This place is addictive

Anyway I was wondering...
I am a pretty attractive guy with lots off friends and I am very social.
Although I have a problem...

I am the guy that ALL girls love to talk to and hang out with.
That is of cource really great.....BUT
Fact is all almost every girl I meet just want to be friends....
Thats all they want to do...talk talk talk
And thats great but it is getting frustrating...

Just getting shot down...time after time
I mean right now I just wanna play the field for a while...I mean im in college...


So I was wondering how do I get all these girls to want more....
Should I talk diffrently or be more funny or what!?
I know this is very diffrent for all girls but there have to some general guidelines for a guy that wants more then just a deep conversations...

For example...what are good subjects when u talk to a girl...?


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Old Sep 26, 2006, 06:36 AM   #11  
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I haven't dated other women in more than 30 years but somewhere in my dim memory I can remember not only being selective but was always busy doing other things besides chasing women. Go slow and give em Quality time not Quantity.
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A woman's entire baody is an erogenous zone. Even behind the knees - their skin is about 1000% times more sentive than guys skin.

You've been given some great advice here. also check out www.sosuave.com - I think it;s geared towards someone your age - GREAT advice their on you evicting the "Friend-nice guy" from your being.

You can STILL be the great guy everyone wants to talk to....just some subtle changes will do wonders.

s_cianci - I STILL can't rate you - but great advice!!!!!!!!!!

You need to learn about women....they are much more different than you think. You probably are treating them more like your buddies and a guy - hence the Friend Zone.

You need to learn to tease woman some - make THEM LAUGH!!! I asaid MAKE THEM LAUGH always and forever!!!
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I think at the same time as being a great guy to talk to wear a tshirt that says "Im available" or something, confidence.

Or if you have the gift of the gab, use it to talk about you a bit more, and talk her in to your bed, (which I think is what your question was pointing too.) All in all, I think you will eventually get someone who actually liked your talking more than your face or (non existant) sixpack. Which is what its al about!

In the mean time, keep on buying those drinks!

(it sure as hell costs alot to not be as good looking as everyone else, I know. )
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Sorry - buying a girl a drink never works - have them buy you a drink. Be different.
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Sorry - buying a girl a drink never works - have them buy you a drink. Be different.
Since I have been on this site I have come to know that you know what you speak of and you rock, you always have excellent advice and comments. This last statement proves it again.
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Thank you. Yes -well - I've been through a lot - seen it all. I have a lot wisdom (not to brag) - and ups and owns in relationships.

That statement just says be different in general. Don't be always predictable. Don't do what the other 1000 guys who have tried to hit on her do.

Always make them laugh - I can't strees that enough - never any tough questions.
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So I have a new question....

The girl I was talking about before...well I cant get her of my mind...
You know the one from MSN

Well now that I have established this "friend" realshionship with here after some loong talks about sex and everything....She has said she is attracted to me but that she isnt sure but she thinks she just wants to be friends...

My question is what can I do to get here on my side? :P
Now that she says she wants to be friends....what is the best move to make here want more than that?

Should I say to here that I have cleard my mind now and that I dont want her?
Should I tell her I still want her?

What to do?


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Well, I'd pull back and leave her alone for a while - disappear. Be a lot LESS avaialble. Be busy.

I assume you don't just want to be friends? Give her some doubt.

I have to beleive 1000% you were WAY too available to her. There for her too much. Talke with her too much. That lands you into the friend zone.
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key thanx so much wildcat
If you were her id give u a BIG hug and some roses
You truly are amazing


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Hahahahaha
Im sure the Cat would love a hug and some roses from a fellow male. No wonder you cant attract the women wonder, you are getting them confused with MEN.

hahaha Only joking. Honest mistake and it wouldnt be the first time!
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