So I met this guy over summer while on vacation. I noticed him looking at me a lot . I was in the ocean with my older sister and he swam over to us he talked to us for a little, then asked to meet us that night. We met with his friend. We learned that he was 24 and his friend was 22. We decided to walk to the beach and he held my hand. When we sat down on lounge chairs he made me sit next to him and put his arm over me. He whispered in my ear that he thought I was beautiful. He made me promise him that before I left I would give him one kiss. I didn't have a chance to. Now I don't know what to think... did he really think I was beautiful... or was he just looking for ***?

So where is this guy now? What is happening with him?
How old are you?
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Well you type beautiful, and since there is not a photo of you, I can't tell you what my opinoin is.

But I will go into a higher ground, it really does not matter what others think, it matters what you think about yourself, If you see my photo on my posts, well that is me, and you know what, when I look into the mirror I am over happy with the me who I am, and I think I look great. Could I loose alitle weight of course but I am happy with who I am to me.

My wife would like me to have long hair, (but I am happy with no hair at all if that is what life brings me)

And then different people like different things, some guys only like African American ladies, some only white, some only spanish, some guys only like girls over 300 lbs ( yep there are those out there that are turned on by those heavy gals) Some like long hair, others like currly hair.

So who knows and you will never know exactly what this guy liked or wanted, But your idea of your beauty will only come from you and your opinoin in the end.

If the guy wants to contact you he will... despite the fact he got a kiss or not. That is if you exchanged info. If not... I believe whatever happens in life usually happens for a reason, so take the good memories you have and move on. As for the beautiful statement, if you are happy with yourself than that is all that matters.

This is an interesting topic you bring up. I work with a guy and we were just talking about this last night. We work with two women whose personalities we were comparing. The first woman is quite physically beautiful but she complains about EVERYTHING. She is just always so down and over dramatic, hangs around people who are depressing, and is often crying for no apparent reason. After you are done talking to her you feel depressed yourself, although you can't exactly say why. Anyway we also work with a woman who is overweight but always smiling and joking around. She is outgoing and easy to talk to. She will play pratical jokes with you and if you play them back she laughs and has a good time. Anyway my friend and I both agreed that we would rather date or hang out with the girl who is always smiling and happy because her true beauty shines through. My point and I'm sorry for making this so long is that you should just enjoy life and yourself, and your beauty will become apparent to many people, not just some random guy at the beach.

So this guy made you feel special and stuff for the time he was around. That's good. Enjoy that feeling, but hun, don't dwell on it.

Whether HE thought you were beautiful is kind of irrealavent. Do you think you are?

I would say he was just playing you up to get something, sounds like he was moving kind of fast for having just met you.

Well I'm 17, I'm not in contact with him. Being 17 I realize I am ridiculously naïve in terms of relationships... which is why I was seeking advice. And being so young, you tend to get hung up on words. Thanks for your input everyone. Blazingsun I tend to agree with you... he did just want to get some and counted on my youth to work in his favor. I just got too excited because he was the first guy to ever find an interest in me. The novelty of being called beautiful temporarily blinded me. I realize that however cliché it sounds, believing myself to be beautiful is more important than whatever compliments he or any other boy says to me. But as any normal teenager being comfortable in your own skin is rough... so ill work on the whole thinking I'm beautiful part.

I'm sure he's not the first and I'm more sure that he won't be the last. LOVE yourself.