| asked her for a drink and it got nasty
(if you read my post "painful ending why?" this will make sense) Well I was going to go see Spiderman 3 with some friends at a casino last night and I decided since I'm leaving the state and I haven't said anything in 2 months to her that I would send my ex a text message asking if she wanted to get a drink. Her husband that she's divorcing wrote me and said "we'll be there..." I wrote back and said I would meet him only if it would benefit me somehow he said she didn't want me to contact her etc...
To make a long story short, he's not even in the same state, I went to the movie but didn't see them. Him and I got into a nasty text message fight, he tried to scare me saying that he had HIV and I should go get checked out (he later admitted was a lie) The whole thing was pretty ugly I told my EX a lot about my past when we were together and he threatened to expose some of it. It ended by me saying that I was sorry for hurting him asking him not to hurt anyone from my past to hurt me. He said I didn't hurt him his wife hurt him and asked if I was going to text or call his wife anymore. I didn't respond, I left it at that.
Obviously 2 months hasn't been long enough, she still must think I ruined her life and fine, I would have taken silence from her to mean "no" but whatever, it is what it is.
I thought If she did something to hurt me like this I would be devastated and for a few minutes I was but it went away real quick. Maybe I really needed something to convince me that she isn't good for me and I think her acting like this (telling him everything and sending him all my texts) pretty much did it. I know I hurt her by what I've said to him after our breakup which I do regret but I apologized and I forgave her for what she did to me.
So that was my contact with her before I leave to go across the country, probably wasn't the best for me, but I feel like a little weight has been lifted off my chest.
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