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Old Feb 5, 2008, 05:06 AM
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Attracting women

Is there a way where I can show emotional / connection interest in a woman and not be rejected?

Or is there a way where I can get women to show emotional / connection interest in me?

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Old Feb 5, 2008, 05:53 AM   #2  
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Women know when a man likes them. Few men know when it's the other way around.

I was impervious to women. They laughed at the littlest things I said, made eye contact, smiled a lot, touched my shoulder or leg whenever they had the chance to do so, and fidgeted with their hair or neckless while talking to me, all smiles. Leans into me when she talks. All tell-tale signs that I never realised before.

If you like her, just don't go overboard with it. Smile when you talk to her, show interest in what she has to say, and you'll know within time.

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Old Feb 5, 2008, 06:00 AM   #3  
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With going on about what Eura said...Never text her first, let her text you first. For some reason girls love it when you ignore them or don't cater to them..If a female could explain that, please do

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Old Feb 5, 2008, 07:04 AM   #4  
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Ok, you two....

Not all girls like to be ignored! Some like to be chased.... but not too much...

Personally, when a guy ignores me it doesn't make me "need" him, it simply lets me know that he's not interested!

But, on the other hand, I just had a first date with a guy that did the opposite... wouldn't stop texting, calling, messaging, etc. That didn't make me want him, rather, freaked me out a little and has made me check that my door is always locked! LOL! (needless to say, there will be no second date!)

I think that it all depends on the girl. A guy shouldn't show too much interest.... but not enough is just as bad. Don't smother her with concern, but show her that you care and let her decide if she wants to let you in.

(Rome and EuRa?? You guys are just too sweet.)

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Old Feb 5, 2008, 07:08 AM   #5  
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Me and a bunch of work buddies were drunk last week and somehow the topic of super powers got brought up...Everyone was saying what one they would like..Of course you had the obvious ones, the super strength or being invisible...me..I picked the ability to read minds, of course its able to be controlled, so that I could possibly understand what is going on inside a girls head ha ha...

Historian, thanks for the compliment..I know not all girls are like that, but there is a VERY fine line between too needy and not interested enough...Trouble is we have to find that balance.
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Old Feb 5, 2008, 07:17 AM   #6  
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Okay falloutguy

There isn't any 'way' to show an emotional connection between you and a woman. You have to actually feel it! Once you feel it, then you act out on it and once that happens a woman will know.

Likewise with girls. You can't make them have an emotional connection with you. If she feels it then she feels it. The right one will come to you. Just wait. But don't 'make' anyone feel a certain way. Be yourself and let the magic do the rest!
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You're right about that - all girls are different... and for that, to all you good-intentioned guys out there, I offer apologies on behalf of the female race. We don't mean to be un-readable, we just are.

Actually, now that I think about it, some girls revel in the fact that they are un-readable.... hmm.... So, I guess the trick is to find the girls that really don't mean to be mysterious, but are actually just being themselves! Knowing what they want - to be treated like the lady they are!

What super power would I choose? Hmm..... Flying? No. Reading minds? Maybe.... Being invisible? Naaa. Leaping over tall buildings?? Riiiiight. Understanding? Yes. I'd choose the ability to understand everything. Wisdom, if you will. Knowing the real intentions, real motives, real questions, real answers. Now that would be cool.

But I think we should all have our own themesong... that just goes without saying!
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Old Feb 5, 2008, 07:18 AM   #8  
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Don't be fake either!
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Ha ha yea...Hmm..what would my theme song be...That is going to take time to think about...Nice proposition

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HistorianChick agrees: I'm liking "There She Goes" or "Charmed Life" or something Norah Jones... or Goo Goo Dolls... or.... Rah... yeah... thought is going to have to go into this one. :)
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Old Feb 5, 2008, 07:41 AM   #10  
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Okay falloutguy

There isn't any 'way' to show an emotional connection between you and a woman. You have to actually feel it! Once you feel it, then you act out on it and once that happens a woman will know.

Likewise with girls. You can't make them have an emotional connection with you. If she feels it then she feels it. The right one will come to you. Just wait. But don't 'make' anyone feel a certain way. Be yourself and let the magic do the rest!


Aaargh! FEEL IT ! Thats the problem, its so easy if you dont feel it, you can take the mick, flirt be suggestive, etc then women are all over you and if they are not it does not bother you because you have no emotions invested. But generally when you dont have feelings they are totally interested in you.

But if you feel something for them then you cant be the same, because you treat them more special and they are not interested, you are then gutted because of the emotions you have for them....

You women have such an easy life. Stand their and look pretty.... lol
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