My boyfriend and I have gone through a really rough time. We were living with his mom and then she kicked us out...we had no where to go. so we stayed at a friends house for a night then i moved back in with my mom. my mom doestn like him so he wasnt alowed to move in with me. so we are a few cities apart...only about a 20 minute drive....well i saw him the day after i moved back into my moms and everything was fine..but then 2 days later he broke up with me. he said that i needed to get my ged and get a job...and that he needed to get a job and pay off some bills...and he said that we need to do all of these things before we can get back together. I just want him back. I miss him. I love him with all of my heart and soul. we were together for a year and 4 months. any suggestions? please... i feel empty without him...

jeffatl

It sounds like he is doing the right thing. You both need to get your lives in order, or all the stress will eat you guys up. If he tells you he needs to get things together and better his situation, let him. He sounds like a smart man to me, you want him to be stable.....and I would reccomend you do the same.

shygrneyzs

Get your GED, get a job, save some money, with that money make sure you help your Mom with rent or food or other expenses (don't be the one who takes advantage of the parent) and then see where you and your bf are. Give yourself a chance to grow up and be independent. Independence is a beautiful thing, it teaches you great lessons for life.

enigmagnetic

He sounds sensible. Do as he says. I think he actually really cares for you. He's taking the hard way, and remember only the soft way has a chance of failing.