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Old Oct 11, 2006, 01:31 AM
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AM i too SENSITIVE?

Dear Readers,

Before Thankyou For Your Care Everybody! Time Sure Flies! I Haven't Posted Here For A Month Now! Kathleen And I Are Truly Back Together And I Have Been Seeking Counciling And Everything! I Changed Alot Since Than!

We Are Back Together Since Sept 20 But Things Till Linger Us Right Now! I Chased Her Back With Flowers And Everything It Works! We Are Pretty Good Together Now But I Still Have Doubts? She Hides Alot Of Her Personal Stuff Her Diary Blogs! That Fine With Me! But She Doesn't Even Tell Me When She Goes Out With Her Friends And What Day She Says None Of My Business! She Can Tell Me Well Just Go Out With Friends Right So Simple? What Is The Worst Thing Is That She Is Hiding Something From Me She Goes To This Place Often And When I Ask Her She Cries And Say None Of My Business! What I Heard From The Telephone Was An Old Guys Voice Could She Be!

When I Ask Her Who Is This Friend She Doesn't Answer Me She Never Tells Me Any Of Her Friends In Fact I Never Heard Or Seen Any Of Her Friends! She Always Say That It Is "none Of My Business" What Can I Say!


The Worst Part Is That She Doesn't Want To Have Sex With Me Anymore And Say She Is Too Tired! And When We Go Out She Says That We Should Go Back Home Early!

 
     

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Old Oct 11, 2006, 01:33 AM   #2  
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Have you tried talking to her?
 
 
     
 
 
Old Oct 11, 2006, 03:07 AM   #3  
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First. Please don't use all CAPS.

Secondly I think she's only keeping you around as a back up plan in case the new guy she's seeing doesn't work out.

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Old Oct 11, 2006, 07:16 AM   #4  
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The relationship was broke and you fixed it. You should be happy, but you aren't. No COMUNICATIONS-BIG RED FLAG, secrecy and withdrawing when asked questions-BIG RED FLAGS, no sex-VERY BIG RED FLAG. Yet you start out by saying how good you two are together. May I ask when its so good?? I think you need to look at this relationship a lot more honestly and decide what the hell did you get BACK into? should you hang around till you get the boot? AGAIN!!

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Old Oct 11, 2006, 07:38 AM   #5  
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Something isn't right here. Your gut tells you she is seeing someone else - I am pretty confident she is from what you have said.

And from what you have said I don't think you are back together - SOUNDS LIKE SHE FEELS SORRY FOR YOU. That also explains the crying.

To be blunt - I wouldn't be suprised if she wanted you to go away.

No sex? NO you are not together.

I've dated girls i nthe past who have these 'friends call' and they are the guys they have started seeing.

Sit this gal down and get the facts. I thnk you're in a fantasy world.
 
 
     
 
 
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I certainly would not tolerate any of this, your letting her run all over you...really it comes down to respect, and for whatever reason (only you know) she doesnt seem to respect you.
 
 
     
 
 
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Yeah - all the flowers and begging - just gives her all the power. YUCK!!! It's whimmpy - of course she doesn't want sex.
 
 
     
 
 
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I'm not very sensitive. If you don't want to be sensitive the only advice I could give is become a Republican. We aren't compassionate but we are compitent.
 
 
     
 
 
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In your other post "I don't want to lose Kathleen" you said that you hit her because she made you mad.

NEVER HIT A WOMAN UNLESS YOU ARE AFRAID FOR YOUR LIFE!!!

And you wonder why she is acting cold with you??? You're lucky that's all she's doing...

No wonder you're buying her flowers and stuff, that doesn't make up for you not being a real man. Take control of your emotions buddy or one day, you're gonna hit the wrong woman and she's going to make you wish you were never born!
 
 
     
 
 
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She is treating you like crap because you deserve to be treated like crap.

You hit her. Period. Now you buy her flowers and gifts. Do you really think that is going to make it all better? PUHLEESE!!!!!!!!!!

Why is she being secretive? Beacuase she probably has a man that is good to her and does not want you to find out cause you will hit her again.

Personally, I don't blame her for anything she is doing. I am just surprised she is still with you... oh, yeah, maybe she is afraid of you and afraid to leave you.

Give it up. She deserves better...
 
 
     


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