thank guys for the answers. he called me bk yesterday then i pretended not to want to talk to him then he was all smiling on the phone. later i had to let him understand that i really do care about him but he said to me that he does not sweet talk women, he just let the love flow without pressure. i then ask him that can i see him today (wednesday) he firstly thought about it then said, call me today and he will see if i can come, i said to my self, if he want s to see me, he does not need to think about it before saying yes, i then called him this morning but he did not pick up and i think he is still sleeping. i really do like this guy but it hurts not to see him and i think he know that i like him and i have come to realise that he is just playing with my emotions and i am too good for all of that. what do you think, do u think he is ready for a relationship or he has too many things to think about that he could not be bothered about me or should i just forget about him an move on or his he just trying to see how far he can push me.

tickle

Sounds like he is playing a cat and mouse game. Anyone who has to play games with someone elses affections isnt worth bothering with. There is no sincerity there.

jeffatl

Seems to me they are both playing some games here, but thats how it works sometimes.

She "acted like she didn't want to talk to him" when he called, but it seemed to have the desired effect.

You guys like you some games, that's ok for starters. Why not make him twist in the wind a bit, and him make you twist a bit as well? You like it it's obvious. Just make sure to know when the games end and somehting else begins.

bluerose

Stop playing games with each other. Nothing good will come of this. Time to get serious.

Samini81

If he cares about you then he will not toy with you he will tell you I am not in the mood to hang out today or yeah come on over not let me see if you can come over, any person, man or woman, who would do this to another person isn't worth your time or your emotions, they are only looking out for #1 right now and unfortunately thats not you at the moment so you should follow suite and do whats best for you tell the guy straight out "I like you, and care about you but the game is not worth it to me to keep playing.' then leave it at that if he really wnats you he will see he is about to loose you and start taking you more seriously if he doesn't then you know it wasn't meant to be and should find someone who will treat you as you need to be treated

talaniman

The thing about games is someone always loses, usually thats you. End these games, and love yourself enough to be happy, with who you are, and someone will come along to share it with you. Anything less will not be a good thing. Doesn't sound to me that he is the one, no matter how bad you want him to be.