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I have been seeing a married man for about 10 months, we are in constant contact with each other via SMS and phone. He is not happy with her, they are always fighting and telling each other to go, the only reason he says he hasnt left yet is because they have 3 children, he is 3 years younger than myself, we could talk for hours if we could find the time, we are also very intimate with each other, more so with him than with my ex hubby of 7 years, he will lay in bed afterward just staring at me and stroking parts of my body, I see tears welling in his eyes and he doesn't try to hide them, but doesnt tell me exactly why that is happening, maybe he thinks i should no why. Does anyone think that, this man i am in love with has, strong feelings for me aswel or may it be all a put on, just to get sex?
Of course he does... I'd like to believe he is crying cause he is trying to decide between leaving his wife or being with you. As for the kids, how old are they? I doubt any of them wish to see their parents fighting. So you have think... what would be easier for them? Seeing their parents fight none stop or just see them stay away from each other. My mother and father never got married, but I do know what it's like to have seperated parents regardless I never have or will know what they would be like as a couple. I hurt me some growing up going from house to house, the constant custody battles and stuff, but I know that I would have been less happy had I had to see them fight all the time just by watching them fight sometimes. What is this woman even like? Does she treat him and his kids right nearly as well as you? Have you met his kids? You know if you stayed together you would have to if he divorced... could you handle it?
Disgusting,,, IM sorry but seeing threads like this is terrible. How can you have respect for a man who is cheating on his wife and KIDS. You should be ashamed with your self.
I don't see how she should be ashamed! He wouldn't be cheating on his wife if he would just leave her!! He won't though cause he is thinking of his kids! I think this guy is a very strong man for dealing with a woman he doesn't like for the sake of his kids.
Im not going to argue. He is less of a man for not adressing his issues with his wife . He owes it to his children. Im old fashion at the right bold age of 25, I have a kid and if i was in his position i would adress the situation instead of running from it
Disgusting,,, IM sorry but seeing threads like this is terrible. How can you have respect for a man who is cheating on his wife and KIDS. You should be ashamed with your self.
I am sorry but i didn't mention the fact that she has cheated on him on numerous occassions, including with my ex-husband.
Thats wrong, I have had my boyfriend have an affair on me and it was the worst pain in the world..and he wasnt even my husband. You need to have respect for his wife even if you dont know her. He is a married man. And if he truely wanted to be with you wouldnt he be?
Oh... This is getting juicy! I know that you love him and he maybe really loves you, but no matter what you two are having an affair. It is wrong to let these things continue, it is his position to make a decision as to who he is going to be with. How long are you going to let this go on like this for? I understand the hold it places on people and how easily you can get caught up in all of this. {imagining she slept with your X} But he does have a huge responsibility to his family to make the decision, I think 10 months is about ample time to figure that one out. Is he waiting for little Timmy Tina and Tommy to head off to college? I wonder how people in your position {no matter what the outcome} could ever trust the guy later on in your relationship. You probably do not see it but right now he has two ladies on the go and most likely he is sleeping with both of you, regardless of what it is he is telling you. So technically you are probably being cheated on as well. Maybe he is crying to you at night because it is a great non verbal cop out for not having dealt with it, and the puppy dog eyes are saying that I can't deal with it later either. Yeah... That sounds like a winner to me.
Good luck with this coward I personally think you will need it.
Having read my own post I seem a little angry, I am sorry for that. I see you coming on here asking a question about does he want me or is it just for the sex? It's been 10 months! Like the super model Brookeleigh said...Quote; He is a married man. And if he truely wanted to be with you wouldnt he be? There is an answer with out sarcasm.
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