| i am not sure i trust my boyfriend I am not sure I trust my boyfriend me and him to together for 8 years we have a daughter who is 7 she is the most important thing in both our lives but i really think she is the one holding our some what relationship together its very hard to explain i love him with all my heart but i have no trust me and him barely talk and we rarely had much to say to each other.... it all started when we were out on new years day at the mummers parade and he seen a mummers club that he used to belong to and he was talking to all his friends that he has not seen in a long time and there was this girl i didnt know who she was and i was walking up to him and i see him giving her his cell phone number and i asked him what he was doing and he said to catch up with old friends so i figured it was nothing to worry about till maybe like 2 weeks later and we were playing cards with my family it was like 2:00 in the morning and his cell phone rang and he didnt answer it i asked him who it was and he said he didnt know but then it rang again so i said who is it he said he didnt know the number that came up on caller id so i said i have to go the bath room and he was in my kitchen so i grabbed his cell phone and called the number back and a girl answered and i said hello who is this and she said her name and i asked her who she was looking for and she my boyfriends name and i asked her for what and she said he told me to call him so i said to her do you know he has a girlfriend and and a daughter she said no and i said oh really well then i told her all about us and she said well she know nothing about us and her and him were to going to get together and talk about old times and see what could happen between them they used to see each other when they were younger so when i asked him about it he said he didnt know what i was talking about he said he was going to catch up with old friends so maybe like a month went by and nothing was ever said so i let it go till maybe like a couple of weeks ago i was on the computer and a lot of stuff has been going on in my family with my nephews and they have my space accounts and i wanted one to check up on them so i decided to make one up and he asked me to make his up cause his sister and the rest of family have 1 so i said fine and i did then his sister left a comment on a girls my space that they both knew in grade school that my boyfriend thought she was hot and he wanted to get together with her so the girl kept sending him messages on his my space so i left her a real nice message on hers telling him that he is happy where he is with his girlfriend and his daughter and that his sister is starting trouble but i never said anything to his sister cause i didnt want to start a fight and when i finally said something to him he said that he read the message that the sister sent the girl but he thought it said that she thought he was hot not the other way and he told his father that lives with the sister and he said something to the sister and she made the girl take it off her my space but that didnt solve anything cause i dont know if he really said it or not so now i been doing things with my mom and sisters and have not been home as much as i should cause i really dont want to keep fighting but when i am home we fight anyway over anything and now he keeps making comments to my daughter like oh look who is home its mommy u havent seen her in a while and i cant take it anymore i know if i move out with my daughter and go to my moms then my daughter will hate me cause she loves her dad no matter what and i cant do that to her but i am not sure if here is the best place for me and her to be i do love him and i want to be with him but i cant take the fighting and i do not trust him
Help me what should i do |