I am madly in love with a straight guy

sangrampp · #1 Mar 23, 2007, 08:30 PM

Hi all,
let me start by introducing myself. I am 26 years old guy. I am gay and never been with a guy. I didn't like anyone that much to be with.
but for the past 4 years i am in love with my friend. he is the straightest guy i have seen - he is handsome, masculine and sexy.
It is not about the thrill of having a straight man; i have had none ( straight or gay guys ) so i don't know which one is more thrilling. Its just that i am madly in love with him - i have constant goose-bumps when i am with him.
this is not a crush and i know that i will not "get over him". What do i do??
is there any way that i can get him??
please help - i feel like dying without him.
Thanx in advance.

AKaeTrue · Mar 23, 2007, 08:46 PM

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is there any way that i can get him??

Absolutely NOT... You said yourself that he's the straightest guy you've ever seen.
You will never "get" him... He is stright...
But do be careful with your feelings...You don't want to risk losing a friendship over this...

AKaeTrue · Mar 23, 2007, 08:47 PM

Have you tried meeting other gay men?

sangrampp · Mar 23, 2007, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by AKaeTrue

Absolutely NOT... You said yourself that he's the straightest guy you've ever seen.
You will never "get" him... He is stright...
But do be careful with your feelings...You don't want to risk losing a friendship over this...

but i have read posts around that they seduced these straight guys. i am not into just sex - its ok if he doesn't even have sex with me - i just want the love reciprocated......

AKaeTrue · Mar 23, 2007, 08:50 PM

Do you really want to seduce a straight guy into being with you?
Not really fair to him (or you)... You could lose your friendship also... Is that worth it?

sangrampp · Mar 23, 2007, 08:51 PM

ya i have tried meeting them. but i just can't get to love them. maybe i will always be miserable...

sangrampp · Mar 23, 2007, 08:52 PM

i am not saying that he has to be exclusively with me. he can get married and have kids. i will always be devoted to him and love him. all i ask for is his love....i am willing to share him ( not that i mean it as a favour )

AKaeTrue · Mar 23, 2007, 08:54 PM

Does he know your gay?
Does this guy know about your feelings for him?

sangrampp · Mar 23, 2007, 08:55 PM

please help me.... i know it sounds pathetic but what can i do - i can't concentrate even on the most basic things in my life and this has gone for 4 years ( if i live to be 100 then thats 4% of my life) i don't think that i can get over him. i want him....

sangrampp · Mar 23, 2007, 08:56 PM

i am not sure whether he knows that i am gay. but the way i look at him - it must have been felt.



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