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Originally Posted by sangrampp Hi all,
let me start by introducing myself. I am 26 years old guy. I am gay and never been with a guy. I didn't like anyone that much to be with.
but for the past 4 years i am in love with my friend. he is the straightest guy i have seen - he is handsome, masculine and sexy.
It is not about the thrill of having a straight man; i have had none ( straight or gay guys ) so i don't know which one is more thrilling. Its just that i am madly in love with him - i have constant goose-bumps when i am with him.
this is not a crush and i know that i will not "get over him". What do i do??
is there any way that i can get him??
please help - i feel like dying without him.
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Let me start off by saying that I have been in Love with a straight guy before. To make it worse, I'm in the military and you know that goes. Sucks having to hide everything, but the that's life and I made my choice of what's more important. For your situation, I wouldn't just flat out tell the guy your in love with him or anything, that'll defiantly get him running away. You need to just tell him already that your gay or slow into it with you think you might be gay. If the guy has any interest in you at all, he will probably let you know. If he is straight, he'll also let you know. I really don't see what the problem is. It's not like you can make him one over the other or anything. Whether he is straight/bi/gay is completely up to him and only he will be able to decide. It sounds really selfish the way you keep asking how you can get him.
yeah you have to tell him your gay have to how else are you gonna find out? some guys can be "turned" gay but that is extremely rare ive experimented with it on alot of guys it has only worked on 1 but he is still straight he is just a lil bi curious right now. i wrecked my chances of being friends with him and id rather be with him as a friend and wank it never get married to anyone but be biffles with him then have what has happened happen. if you really feel like you say and you want to risk your sanity and your heart on it try to get close to him as close as you can taking years and years to do it but be yourself and then let out some clues your gay like a gay porn browser make sure they look as girly as possible so its less disgusting to him and make him think about it you cant force someone to be gay but if they are atall bi or gay they would have to think about it and see if he turns or not. if he does youll be happy forever flowers and or if it doesnt youll end up with a broken heart and a destroyed mine like me he said he loved me i took a risk and got screwed this situation is high risk dont take it lightly we all need to take risks but can you take it if you fail i can barely i am still trying to get him and it isnt working at all. you need an answer
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