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I am cheating, what should I do
Asked Oct 10, 2007, 03:05 PM
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17 Answers Okay first of all there is no need to tell me what a terrible person I am, I already know. I have been with the same person for four years, and am very much in love! But I have a friend who is athletic, compassionate, smart, lets just say he's the total package. We are both very attracted to one and other. Throughout high school we were best friends and more. After high school we moved to the same city but go to different schools, I'm here with my boyfriend, and haven't seen the other guy sice we left. But we just went back home for a long weekend, and we happened to go to the same party, and we spent the night at a friends house where a little too much happened, we have done things before, but never that much. And now that we are back in the city he is calling me to hangout. I want to say yes, but I know what will happen. I love my boyfriend, but this other guy is so amazing |
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| I only read I'm cheating. Your a piece of work. Who are you as a person. What values do you hold. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. And what will you do when this new guy doesn't work out. Go back to your ex. You disgust me. Tell your boyfreind that your a hoe and that he deserves better then a sink hole | ||||
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| Also you think this guy is so amazing? What about the man who has stuck by your side for 4 years, What about all of the effort he has put into you. And your going to throw it away for a guy who you THINK is amazing.. How old are you 16,17.. If your in a serious relationship then take it serious other wise, Tell your soon to be ex what you have done and leave him the hell alone. I hope he kicks you to the street and once you try to be dependent on this new guy he will do the same.. You clearly have no respect for your self that you can just have sexual relations with a guy who you went to high school with. Your a sad excuse for a human being. I'm not faulting you for wanting to be with another but there are ways to deal with things. And cheating isn't one of them. | ||||
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| You can't love your boyfriend and "think this other guy is so amazing" both. If you think you do, then you don't have the emotional maturity to understand what love really is. What you feel is lust, not the same thing at all. You need to leave both of these guys alone till you can grasp commitment and love both. Right now you don't understand either. | ||||
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| I'm not going to tell you that you are a terrible person, a lot of good people make mistakes. If everyone in this world that cheated at some point in their life were all bad and terrible, we'd be in big trouble. So, with that said, I'll answer your question of "I am cheating, what should I do?" What you should do is know your feelings and realize the difference between lust, being in love with a significant other, and the love people have for a friend. You may very well love your boyfriend, but you're probably not in love with him or the cheating would have never happened. Take some time to learn your true feelings and deal with them accordingly so that no one is hurt more than they have to be in the future. | ||||
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| Yep it's time to "feel good." Off to school, a new town and all is great. Seeing your old friend was good in many ways; a friend close by, a person to relate to, memories of the past, sharing common interests and on and on. I don't think that was quite enough. You wanted more but got a lot less. You traded all of these things and another person you loved with all his ideas, thoughts, humor, loyalty, dedication, likes, dislikes, trust, and so much more for one simple thing; your desire to be nailed by a kid we call He Has-IT-ALL. I would guess the guy your with took one look at you and said Shyst-oh-holly-foke-tow She Has-IT-ALL. A girl getting a guy into bed is a no brain-RRRRR. | ||||
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| I find it interesting that your post is totally centered on the atheltic guy. Hmmm...it doesn't really talk about your boyfriend or how you should deal with his broken heart. Which says you're not the right woman for your boyfriend. Please leave your boyfriend and go be with the athelete; you two deserve each other. | ||||
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