All of my friends are conspiring against me to hook me up with a child.

talaniman · Jun 14, 2012, 12:30 PM

I can't really say that I disagree with your approach. I would have told them and the youngster where to stick their heads a long time ago. But your way may be better.

JudyKayTee · Jun 14, 2012, 01:40 PM

If he's stalking you, call the Police.

If it's anything else you aren't being forceful enough. Block HIM from your FB.

Do your friends think you and this person are on the same emotional level, even though you are older?

If you don't want to be bothered, don't be bothered. Block all of them.

I do notice you had a very immature response on another thread and actually insulted respected, long-time members. http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/interio...es-572294.html It also appear you have a blog which is pretty much open to the public. Does that still exist?

Fr_Chuck · Jun 14, 2012, 01:43 PM

Block him on face book, explain to him you are close to calling the police and filing for a restraining order against him. If "friends" bother, explain that he is stalking and you see him as a danger.

blagosphere · Jun 15, 2012, 11:13 AM

Thank you, although the more concerning issue is not that he is continuing to contact me, but rather that he is being encouraged and helped by people I once called friends.

As I cannot keep track of how many of our mutual friends are aiding him, (my last count has gotten up to six), I will now be deleting all of our mutual friends from facebook and warning my boss to call the police the next time he is seen. I have also asked my boss and other staff to warn me if anybody comes looking for me at work and to have them identify themselves, because the last I heard he was also in touch with my ex boyfriend and they have been spending an unusual amount of time together, which lead to my ex calling me last night. Until he got my ex involved, I was under the impression that this was merely a sad little kid with a crush and some immature friends playing a prank on him, but now I see where you all are coming from deeming this as an emergency for the police. As for the blog, I have deleted that as well as my skype account, two emails (one of which is my university issued address), and temporarily traded cellphones with my sister, as these are all other venues he and my long-time friends have used to message me. I have now cancelled my graduation party and other summer plans, and spoken to the District manager of my work about transferring jobs.

C0bra_M3nace · Jun 15, 2012, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by blagosphere

Thank you, although the more concerning issue is not that he is continuing to contact me, but rather that he is being encouraged and helped by people I once called friends.

As I cannot keep track of how many of our mutual friends are aiding him, (my last count has gotten up to six), I will now be deleting all of our mutual friends from facebook and warning my boss to call the police the next time he is seen. I have also asked my boss and other staff to warn me if anybody comes looking for me at work and to have them identify themselves, because the last I heard he was also in touch with my ex boyfriend and they have been spending an unusual amount of time together, which lead to my ex calling me last night. Until he got my ex involved, I was under the impression that this was merely a sad little kid with a crush and some immature friends playing a prank on him, but now I see where you all are coming from deeming this as an emergency for the police. As for the blog, I have deleted that as well as my skype account, two emails (one of which is my university issued address), and temporarily traded cellphones with my sister, as these are all other venues he and my long-time friends have used to message me. I have now cancelled my graduation party and other summer plans, and spoken to the District manager of my work about transferring jobs.

Seems a bit extreme? Nothing a restraining order could have fixed?

JudyKayTee · Jun 15, 2012, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by blagosphere

Thank you, although the more concerning issue is not that he is continuing to contact me, but rather that he is being encouraged and helped by people I once called friends.

As I cannot keep track of how many of our mutual friends are aiding him, (my last count has gotten up to six), I will now be deleting all of our mutual friends from facebook and warning my boss to call the police the next time he is seen. I have also asked my boss and other staff to warn me if anybody comes looking for me at work and to have them identify themselves, because the last I heard he was also in touch with my ex boyfriend and they have been spending an unusual amount of time together, which lead to my ex calling me last night. Until he got my ex involved, I was under the impression that this was merely a sad little kid with a crush and some immature friends playing a prank on him, but now I see where you all are coming from deeming this as an emergency for the police. As for the blog, I have deleted that as well as my skype account, two emails (one of which is my university issued address), and temporarily traded cellphones with my sister, as these are all other venues he and my long-time friends have used to message me. I have now cancelled my graduation party and other summer plans, and spoken to the District manager of my work about transferring jobs.

I wouldn't allow him to force me to change my life.

I'd be filing for a Restraining Order.

mmresd · Jun 15, 2012, 12:11 PM

Tell him that if he won't stop talking to you you will be going to the authorities. As far as the friends go, tell them how you feel, if they do not respect it, then it is time to find friends that actually care about you, not use you for amusement.