About me and who I would like to meet: conscription
I'm a man who is proud of myself, i respect myself and others I'm aware of who i am and seek no definition form the person I'm with nor do i expect her to read my mind. I'm strong enough to make my dreams come true i know love and i give love i recognize that my love has great value and must be reciprocated. i believe i have a dash of inspiration and a dabble of endurance. I know my past, understand my present and i always move towards my future and i know God and with God the world is my playground but without him i just be played .I'm looking for a good woman as I'm a good man she doesn't have to declare how sensitive, sweet, sincere she is as time will tell she wont degrade me if our opinion's clash, she can admit when she’s wrong. a good woman will not meet every thing on my check list because she’s human with frailties and faults mixed in with her wonderful, strong attributes, she needs my love and respect just as i need her’s. over time we grow and become one ... she doesn't have to be flashy or rich or have a great body (but hey i wont be unhappy if she doe's) I'm just looking for my Miss Right you know someone i can be her Mr. Right.

NeedKarma

So...you're looking to hook up with a woman at the AskMeHelpDesk discussion board?

DJ 'H'

He is till learning how to use this board. He only joined today - he is a newbie. Help him out.

Peter Love - this is not a place you can find love but a place where we help people. If you are wanting us to help you figure out where you have gone wrong in the past with relationships? Or how you can make a move a women you may have you eye on - then we can help you.

Nez

Peter,you've made your welcome statement.I see from your profile,that your an IT Recruiter.You will find that a lot of us here,look through Windows,and out onto Linux.Feel free to ask any question.Welcome aboard.

DJ 'H'

Cheers Nez for helping me out there. I am struggling to help Peter understand how this site works.

Fr_Chuck

As you learn to use the board you will find beter sections to ask such things.

And love and finding someone is where you find it. I meeet my wife on line, we were part of a instant message group and she liked my cute name I used back then. ( one never to be mentioned again by the way)

We chatted for a few months and meet and fell in love at first site.

So love can be found almost anywhere.

I may suggest you might find another photo, not complaining, but it looks like a photo of a prisioner in his orange jump suit against a blank white wall in a visiting room. ** Not that it is, but it was the first thing that caught my eye even before I read the post.

bizygurl

Hi Peter and Welcome to the site, I know you will find this site very useful to you. Its wonderful that you know exactly what you want out of a woman and you put it so eloquently, not many peole know what they want.

But I wasn't sure if you were asking a question because you wanted advice? Or you were asking because you were looking for a woman on this site. Just let us know, we do want to help.

Wildcat21

I know what I would want in woman....BUT, it doesn't work that way at all. My gal is so different, of course he has a lot of qualites and values I need, but she is different and I love her for that.

If your looking for a specific woman or man - you will never find it. People aren't built that way. You need to learn to give and take.

I'd keep an open mind to all woman. Don't ever right off a woman you first meet because she doesn't have things on your list. Give it time.

DJ 'H'

Very wise and sensible - I could not agree with you more. It's not just about looking for the right qualities, it's about the connection. When sparks start flying and you click with someone - just as Pete and I did. I just knew. He does not have all the qualities I was dreaming of in a Man, but he is so special and as wildcat said "Different" and thats what I love him for. If the Man I had dreamed about did walk into my life to sweep me off my feet, I would probably have to decline as Pete means so much more to me than some dream

Wildcat21

"sparks start flying" - so important. My gals personality is unbelivable. We laugh all the time even after over 1 year of knowing each other.

If I saw her on the street and didn't know her I might not give her a second look.