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i dont konw what to do, i dont realy have many good friends, and i dated this girl for a year and six months, she was my first real gf, and she wanted to marry me, and then she ended about 6 months ago, she is creeped out by me now, and i wish she wasnt, and she was the only person i can trust everything with, people tell me time will heal everything but is it this painfully?
It's hard to forget about someone that means so much to you. Try and take up activities that you like doing to occupy your time. Go out with friends and have fun, don't talk about the situation though. Think of positive things, it will take time and you can't do it on your own. Spend time with your friends, it will help trust me.
It's hard to forget about someone that means so much to you. Try and take up activities that you like doing to occupy your time. Go out with friends and have fun, don't talk about the situation though. Think of positive things, it will take time and you can't do it on your own. Spend time with your friends, it will help trust me.
No problem, this place is a great place to reach out for help. Just remember work on you, begin rebuilding yourself and all is well.......she's not worrying or thinking of you as often as you are of her. You will emerge out of this a better person.....time is on your side here.
You will see as you heal, and clear your mind, and soul, there will be many opportunities, and options, in your young life, and you will deal with them in a much more mature way, as you grow, and learn.
All us humans do, as they others have said. Everything happens in its due time.
i feel as if God has left me, every since my ex left me
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first i would to say is this website has helped me out a lot. and im greatfull that people help everyone. im a catholic, a proud one to, just everysince last summer a lot of stuff has been goin down hill for me, before my ex ened a year and six months reliship. my health wasnt very well during summer, i was always stress due to a summer class i was taking the only time i rember where i would feel peace was with my ex, in the moring i would take her to her driving lesson school, we would wake up early i would take her for breakfeast, everymoring, we would laugh and hug, then i would drop her off at the school, then i would head to my class, for about four hours everyday, i would pick her up at 12pm we would go get lunch sometimes with her mother, still have agood laught huge, and she would run towards me and say im glad God gave me a bf like you and one i would want to marry. many of our peers thought we would get married. we rarely fought if we did we would tell each other sorry and we would see if we could fix it, we would usely. but then i started having very bad nightmares. of her been tourted and my sister as well, it seem so real sometimes, i would only get about 30min of sleep for about 2 or 3 months, i never told her cause i didnt want to worrie her and mess up her chance for college, she new sumthing was wrong with me, but i didnt want to put a burden on her, since her grandfather was dieying at that time, may he RIP. i wish i could of been thier for her more during that time, i would offer to take her food to the hospital, but i wasnt realy myself now that i look back, i would have very bad days, like i would be grumpy, but i would tell her i was sory, that i was goin throu somestuf, i was about to tell her about my knightmares, and some other problemds i was having, with my family that i had two close family friends about to die, i was under so much pressure that time, i didnt knwo what to do, and i didnt want to worry her, it was a mistake i made, then when she dump me i guess she thought i was stalking her, which i wasnt, i would bump into her at random, i didnt even knwo she was their, and she thoguht i was stalking her, i gave her space, but then my cpu went all wierd, and sent her an email that made me look crazy a peom i was workin on befor we broke up. i was chaning it to make it look more as a friend thing, but them my cpu sent it to her on accendent. one day the mother called me and asked me if i was still datin her. i told her no, she ended it, the mother was shock, then she asked me if their was anything she could do that would help me, i asked her if i could get a pict of her my ex and the father, since her father passed away, i wanted to get her a crystal foto for her for xmas,i asked the mother not to tell my ex, but i guess she did. then ppl started to spread talk that wasnt true, but my ex would still call me. just to cheak up on me, she was worried once when she called, i realy dont know what happan. some one screwed me over, and now it has been around 7 months since the break up and we havent realy talk. i would want to talk to her but dont know what to do, i havnt realy talk to anyone about this only mayb my two close friends and that is all. i would want peace between me and her, patty my ex is the one who holds all the cards it is up to her,
well it has been ten months since the break up, and my ex started talking to me about two month out of the blue thru myspace mail, i still love her,but i don't know if she loves me or cares for me, and we are talking in secret, that sorta gives me a lil fear, cause i don't know how to ask her, why we are talking in secret, and how to tell her i still lover we dated for a year and 5 months, and we have been talking everyday thru myspace mail. can any one give any tips? please and thank you. iv been praying for ten months for something good to happen between me and her.
Not to rain on your parade, but I wouldn't get my hopes up too much. I don't know why the sudden interest in talking to you again via myspace mail but I don't think it's because she wants to get back with you ; otherwise she wouldn't be doing it in secret and she'd want to see you face-to-face. 10 months is a long time to hope for something that's probably not going to happen. I say time to move on with your life.
I agree with the others, 10 months is a long time. Personally it sounds like she needs a back-up. That'd be you bud.
Cut to the chase with her. Next time you talk suggest going out getting lunch, dinner, or whatever as in a date. DO NOT say date just ask her out and see what she does. If she he-haws around you have your answer... NOT INTERESTED. If that's the case save your dignity and move on.
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