| I don't mean this wrong, but this is something you should have thought about when you started looking for a job out of state.
Depending on the level of job, some places as mentioned will help with some relocation expenses, pay for a few months living expense and so on.
But it will often depend on what level job you are going to work at,
And often it does not matter what your wife wants, if you have to move, sometimes you have to do things so that you can afford to pay bills.
Next of course you can move and live in a small furnished room, while you wife stays and sells the house. I have lived out of small rooms for several months at a time on many occassions when I had to move accross the country |