i have been with my boyfriend for at least 13 years. he is a drinker and at times when he is drinking he tells me he is going to put me out .his drinking buddy is the landlord . for quite some time know the landlord will get in my face and tell me that she is going to put me out . that he has paid her hundreds of dollars to put me out.just recently she told me she was changing the locks. when i moved in she raised his rent,i also pay him 240.00 a month on the rent this was agreed upon a year after i moved in and got a job. she has been harassing me and telling me what she going to do .how can i get her off my back and stop threatening me until i leave. i would appreciate help from anybody. thank you distressed

shygrneyzs

MOVE! Away from the boyfriend, away from his drinking buddy/landlord, just as far as you can get and can afford. Even if it is a sleeping room, move.

Stop allowing yourself to be harassed and degraded, threatened and browbeat by these two people. Get on with your life. As soon as possible, like tomorrow.

excon

Hello scared:

You've got several problems here. The easiest solution is for you to move - NOW.

You're not going to change her. You're not going to change your boyfriend. You CAN change your residence, and I would - TOMORROW.

Waiting until it's convenient for you ISN'T the answer. You want it to be all nice until then, and THAT ain't gonna happen.

excon

PS> You're not on the lease. You have no obligation to stay.

Cvillecpm

MOVE - unless you like the "drama" of your current situation, don't provide any more money to BF or LL and start looking for your own place.