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Old Jul 5, 2008, 09:30 AM
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son moving out with my stuff

son moved back home 4 years ago with his wife and kids.told us he would help with bills 1,200 a mo. no money for 1 year now. wanted to build addition for kids room put up the shell. now the wife is mad and is moving out with stove they took mine out dishwasher they threw mine out. and they want me to pay them for the addition they did not finish. daughter in law is terrible told me she will beat me up!! threw trash all over yard not picking it up. let the pool turn green wont let me shock it said her pool she bought it.we are sick!!!! what do we do when they start carrying out our stuff. we live in the house in mother in law apt

 
     

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Old Jul 14, 2008, 08:10 AM   #51  
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Domestic violence law and the term "domestic violence" usually refers to crimes involving domestic abuse, such as child abuse and child neglect, spousal abuse or domestic-partner abuse, and elder abuse. Domestic abuse isn't just physical; it also covers the threats, emotional abuse, harassment, and stalking that a spouse, partner, or date uses to control someone else's behavior. The abuse can be directed against anyone: children, former partners, roommates, and parents, but it is most typically directed against women. Domestic violence is a crime in all 50 states. However, in addition to cooperating with the prosecution of criminal charges, the victim of domestic violence can file civil charges. Read the following domestic violence information to learn more about domestic violence law, domestic abuse law and spousal abuse. You can locate a domestic violence lawyer, attorney or a child abuse lawyer by using the lawyer search directory.

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Where do you see domestic abuse here - ? Allowing a pool to turn green isn't domestic abuse.

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achampio21 disagrees: If you had read previous posts by OP you would see where things could be considered domestic. And it also appears that a lawyer agrees with me.
 
 
     
 
 
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lawyer states that they are harrassing, verbal and ruining my property, and credit and hes my son and his wife. he sates its domestic abuse
 
 
     
 
 
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lawyer states that they are harrassing, verbal and ruining my property, and credit and hes my son and his wife. he sates its domestic abuse
Baincristina........what's the update? Did the attorney advise you to give notice and begin eviction proceedings? Have you done so? And what kind of time frame are you working with now?
 
 
     
 
 
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thanks for caring rockinmommy. as hes my son and theres no written lease.lawyer said if they do to much get restraing order. not landlord tenant.but they are cleaning up and moving things. watching close as i know there up to something. they said i dont have certificate to rent and they would do something to me. i wasnt renting i took the family home hes in his own room with wife. but she is trying to get me for everything possible!!!
 
 
     
 
 
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lawyer states that they are harrassing, verbal and ruining my property, and credit and hes my son and his wife. he sates its domestic abuse

If your Attorney believes this is domestic abuse I don't understand why your Attorney isn't moving to have them charged with domestic abuse. You don't need to go through the Police when it's domestic abuse - you go to the Court, file for a retraining order, ask for an emergency hearing if need be and get your Order.

Ruining your credit and property are most definitely not domestic abuse but certainly harrassment is - it depends on the level of that harrassment.

I don't understand - if it is domestic abuse - why your Attorney isn't recommending that you act. But you don't need an Attorney - go to the Courthouse and file.

And please let us know if you are able to get a restraining order on that charge.
 
 
     
 
 
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I will say this with some hesitation, you may want to talk to a second attorney, this is obviously landlord / tennant law. same as a 19 year old that grew up in the house that you need to removed from the house that is doing nothing wrong at all.

There are many issues, first if there is damage to your personal property and/or damage to the home, and it is done in anger during a argument, it is domestic violence and they can be arrested for it.
If they just damage it without argument or threats, it is just damage and a civil issue.

And it sounds like your attorney is not having you do anything but hope they move out and not destroy alot. This is not right, there are many things you can do, to evict them. I am sorry it does not sound like your attorney is telling you everything possible to do. Or he is and you do not want to be hard and tough enough to do it.
 
 
     
 
 
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I will say this with some hesitation, you may want to talk to a second attorney, this is obviously landlord / tennant law. same as a 19 year old that grew up in the house that you need to removed from the house that is doing nothing wrong at all.

There are many issues, first if there is damage to your personal property and/or damage to the home, and it is done in anger during a argument, it is domestic violence and they can be arrested for it.
If they just damage it without argument or threats, it is just damage and a civil issue.

And it sounds like your attorney is not having you do anything but hope they move out and not destroy alot. This is not right, there are many things you can do, to evict them. I am sorry it does not sound like your attorney is telling you everything possible to do. Or he is and you do not want to be hard and tough enough to do it.
Amen, Father! (I have to spread it around.)
 
 
     
 
 
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Amen, Father! (I have to spread it around.)

Thread should be closed - so many posts have been pulled that thread no longer makes sense and it's turned into an argument, not legal advice.
 
 
     
 
 
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