[spdqueen8]

My situation is this:
I live in Georgia and my ex husband and I divorced 3 yrs ago after 3 yrs of marriage. We have 2 children age 13 & 6. After my divorce was final I began seeing someone else and we are now engaged. My ex husband has had no contact with my children since the divorce was finalized. I had to have him locked up for aggrevated stalking 1 month after the divorce was finalized because he came to my home @ 2 am and tried to break into it. I had a TPO against him and have since had that changed to a Permanent order. I have also modified my divorce so my ex husband cannot see the children and I have full physical and legal custody of my children because of the things he did to my children. Needless to say I have already proved it court that he is not a nice person to me and the kids. He also has untreated Bi-Polar. Anyway, my ex has not paid any child support in almost 3 years and owes me about $15,000. My wonderful fiancée loves my kids, refers to them as his own, loves them as his own, they call him daddy not my ex, and they love him. If you ask them he is their daddy. What are my options since I have already proved a history of violence against me and the kids regarding temination of rights permanently and my fiancée legally adopting them which is what the kids want.

[George_1950]

If you marry, your husband has an opportunity to adopt after termination of the father's parental rights.