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    niclaalaa Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 31, 2008, 07:03 AM
    Getting my daughter, her husband and their son to move out
    Please could someone give me advice as my daughter and son inlaw keep changing their moving out date. I would like to move permanently back into my family home which me and my husband own, which my daughter and son inlaw live in with their son.
    We have no written contract for them living there and they pay very little rent a month, and help pay no bills, which I pay phone electric etc.
    Me and my husband have been working away so don't stay in the house during the week, but come back at the weekends, and now have decided to move back.
    They have no respect for me or my property as they are very messy people and now it feels as if they are taking over my home and to be honest it doesn't look like they will ever move.

    Please help
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    Jan 31, 2008, 07:42 AM
    Give them a 30 day notice to move, if they do not move out, file formal evictoin notice with the court.
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    Jan 31, 2008, 07:55 AM
    I'de give them a date you want them out by or tell them if they can't manage that-this is the amount of rent we will need from you every month to continue living here. This time make them sighn some kind of a contract you will need to draw up. You and your husband could figure a fair amount it will cost for them to live in YOUR house in comparison to the rent in your area, call a couple of apartment rentals in your area see what there charging for a 2 bedroom apartment. But by all means don't back down, it's called tough love and some day they'll thank you for it.
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    Jan 31, 2008, 08:33 AM
    If you want them out so you can move back in then just do what Chuck said. You will need to go through formal eviction proceedings.
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