I'm in a very similar situation with being a first time renter (last year). My now former landlord did not do any type of inspection when I moved in. With that being my first apartment, I didn't know any better. The last few months of my tenancy I had to really cover my a$$ once I realized that my landlord was a snake.
I knew my landlord could not claim damages for what is considered "normal wear and tear".
Normal Wear and Tear Apartment Cleaning Landlord Tenants or
Nolo: Law Books, Legal Forms and Legal Software - search normal wear and tear or security deposit. And I don't know if this is different in every state, but in my state you may request to see the previous tenants record of inspection from when they vacated and the landlord must present you a copy. That may be helpful.
I cleaned my apartment until it was in better than ever condition. But since my landlord had not replaced the carpeting, painted the walls, or replace the appliances in years - I did my best & it still looked kind of crappy. I took well over a hundred pictures of every square inch of the place as well as video. I wouldn't put it past this guy to kick in a wall and say it was me. I collected as much hard copy evidence as I could. I'm glad I did because now I am going to court.
My landlord was 7 days late on returning my security deposit as well as some other credits that are owed to me. He did however send me a check. Too bad he is about $500 bucks short, did not list any said damages, forgot to include my rent credit from when the new tenant moved in, and over charged me for the utilities - yet again! I have been fortunate enough to have an attorney on retainer and today we decided to sue him. My situation has been a pure nightmare, but I have learned a tremendous amount about renting laws. This is a great website with very knowledgable people. As well as searching on google - several websites will come up in regards to renting. I have learned more than I ever wanted to know about landlord-tenant rights. I hope everything works out for you!
Everyone who replied to my posts a few months back were right - he wasn't going to give me my deposit.