Our 24 year old daughter was supposed to move out by March 30, 2008. She does not pay rent. She has broken her promises to us over and over. Now she says her apartment will not be ready until May 1. We knew she would keep postponing but what can we do? My husband wants to just change the locks and have the police escort her out. We live in New Jersey. Can we do that? Will the police help us? We have 6 other children living at home, 2 in college. It's demoralizing to the rest of the kids and us, when we work hard to make ends meet and she just watches Court TV all day.