will my marriage last?

mishiree · Jan 27, 2006, 10:56 PM

i have been married for 16 months but i don't trust my husband. i am 8 months pregnant and need to know before its too late for my baby if he is going to cheat and if we will last

Karee_Lynn · Nov 2, 2009, 07:27 PM

Ok, if you do not have trust, you do not have a relationship. I got married when i turned 18. I found out that my husband cheated on me when we first started going out. I forgave him because it was when we first started going out and we did not love each other yet. If he has cheated on you, its not right to get him back. It might feel really good to get him back, but it just makes you look bad. Be the bigger person. Also it gives him an excuse to say "well you did it to me, now lets forget what happened and move on". If you really love him and really want to be with him, it might not be the answer to stay with him if you do not trust him. If you do not trust him, then you wont be happy if you both are still together. Think about your feelings too. If you are having a baby, I know couples stay together because of the baby but, YOU HAVE FEELINGS TOO. Im not saying to just think about yourself, but if your not happy then you will argue around your children and you will also mess up their heads. Its really up to you. I have been cheated on alot(not saying im not not good enough) but i kno how it feels to not trust the next person you get with. take chances.



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